I'm a 30 year old white dom male from Hagerstown, MD, and I'm seeking a new submissive partner with the potential for long term. I just moved into a new apartment, figured I would try my search again. I'm looking for someone who's comfortable in their own skin, who isn't perfect but is ok with that. I'm far from perfect, in every way, so I'm not into messing with silly promises or wasting people's time. I'm 5'10 360, losing weight that was gained while being in a relationship that was very unfulfilling when you got past the window dressings. I'm looking for just the opposite now, a relationship that may appear tame, but you look forward to the next interaction between us.

My main kinks include spanking, edging, orgasm control, rules/tasks, and sensory play. I'm perfectly fine with starting online and building that dynamic, but absolutely need to eventually have that in person aspect as well. There's just something about that mental side of a D/s relationship that turns me on, and in the sake of full disclosure, I can be a bit of a sadist at times. Nothing over the top or crazy, but I have found in the 10 years I've been a Dom that I like to make people wait just a little while longer to orgasm, or leave one more hand print on a breast or ass. However, I also have a Daddy side to me that usually shows up in the aftercare phase, taking the time to make sure my partner is taken care of and I'm a decent cuddler(so I'm told).

I'm an IT professional currently working a traveling job, so my schedule and location are pretty fluid. I'm a nerdy, bigger guy, but I'm actively losing weight as mentioned, as well as a lot more social than most "nerds". I'm an open book, so feel free to ask any questions if you're intrigued. I appreciate you all reading this, I know that when my mind gets going i can put out a lot of words.