When I am sitting across from her, I am genuinley interested, really! I am polite, I listen and I take time to be engaging.

There are just some thing constantly going through my head while she sips her wine.

"Does she like being choked? Well, who doesn't so probably yes"

Then I sip my beer

"But what if she gives shite Blowjobs? I mean, I haven't even tried explaining that I like it sloppy and with ball sucking being the main focus"

I laugh at her joke as I roll my eyes thinking

"God she has no idea I've already touched myself to her, does she? I hope she has as well because I could really go for some tightness tonight..."

She mentions her ex and I go further into the: "Omg, what if she is vanilla? She might not be cool with public sex, free use..."

And before long I am a tad awkward and tad hard...

Online dating is one thing, but actually finding someone who responds well before we meet to my kinks is so important.

That's why I like this sub. Every connection I make here, we put it all on the table. The free use, corrective cnc, the domination and such. I've met some really great partners here and the my dating life has improved enormously by going into our first meeting with a nice history of sexting, phone sex, nudes and titles already established.

Sex should always be on the table from the start, no? Like blowjob before dinner, I already know what your cum face looks like by dessert

Like, is it that big of a deal that our first date *will* end with cheap standing doggy in the park on our romantic walk home?

I mean, is it really fucked up I want to know the colour of your nipples rather than your eyes?

So, if you seem to agree with any of this please reach out to me and let's get to know each other.

A bit about me: I am 27, Swedish and a travelling professional. A real jet setter.

I enjoy classic cinema, gaming, mens fashion and weightlifting.

I exercise 2h.30 min 5 times a week and do about 300 squats, making my size and strength a propermotivator for any power dynamic in my favour.

I could probably talk your ear off in regards to my fave Kurosawa film or my collection of neckties.

I have a posh english accent, 110kg and 184 cm.

Drop a line with your asl and a physical description and let's get to know each other a bit