Hey there sexy people!
I'm taking a bit of a break from dating, but I know kink is too important to me to disengage with... so am intentionally channeling my libido to sexy people on the internet! This also means I have the capacity if the right connection comes along for something ongoing, with mutual effort, were we can be respectfully disrespectful.
I really like my voice and love turning people on with it. Think low, rumbling, and with a nice growl. I think dirty talk is an art form, especially after a bit of discussion of what terms and "seasonings" are preferred. I also love to read erotica outload to someone while they play with themselves on voice or video chat. Those with an erotica they want me to read to them to the front of the line!
I'm 39, male, 5'11", 180ish pounds, mostly white, attractive and respectful, work outside... think scruffy lumberjack! 😏 Very kinky, a switch, usually in the dominant role. Pretty experienced with things like sub training, BDSM, DDlg, rope bondage (I teach a class!), impact, and more. I am very much a feminist, knows about consent and negotiations. But I also know that often the very things that are taboo and go against our belief systems and values are the things that turn us on. For me that comes out with things like CNC, public/risky sex, group play, misogyny, free use... you get the idea. But I'm also gentle DaddyDom, a goofball, a caregiver, a safe space, an active listener...
While dirty chats are the goal, I'd like to understand your erotic blueprint a bit first... not just say any dirty thing and hope it is what you like. I want to know what turns you on.
Depending on the connection this could end up being all sorts of things outside of voice play... Role playing scenarios. Sexting. Exchanging porn. Exchanging pics. Power exchange. Influencing your sexual behavior, like edging instructions or kinky tasks. Just talking about fantasies and what turns us on. And of course open to hearing anything you'd like to do.
Hit me up!
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