Greetings and salutations! Regular guy living in The Big Apple into some kinky shit interested in talking with a submissive woman.

What I'd like to do is learn more about what subs are thinking, wondering, hoping for, etc. at certain points while playing. What I mean is, I know what I get out of having your ass plugged and spanked and tied up on the bed. What I want to learn more about is what it gives you. Now, I'm not a complete moron here, I'm 45, not a rookie, but you learn by asking questions and listening to the answers, not just assuming you know just 'cause. I don't want this to be an interrogation, I'd like it to be a back and forth intelligent (if sexually charged) conversation between adults.

What I'd like to do is present a couple of main points in an evening of play, and talk about how you would like to see the night unfold and transition into those various situations. And to have a back and forth conversation about what you're thinking about. It's all about the mental game. As a Dom, you ideally want a sub dripping wet without even touching her, because you've managed to dominate her mind through words, actions, anticipation, etc. And once you have her mind, then a sub surrendering her body becomes natural and calming for her.

Here's the main idea.

• It's a Saturday evening, weekend noise/chores/etc done. Just sitting on the couch for a minute before getting crazy. From here, I want to get you from the couch into a slutty outfit for me (pleaser heels, sexy makeup, sheer g-string, etc.). Obviously a very revealing outfit.

• Next, have you show off the outfit for me.

• Next, nude except heels during a bare bottom OTK spanking.

• Next you're tied face down on the bed, spread eagle, blindfold and gag, heels on still, ass further spanked with flogger, paddle, strap, whatever we've agreed on, ass plugged as prep for anal, magic wand on and off teasing clit.

• Lastly, obviously anal sex and who knows.

• Aftercare (if you'd like to share what you prefer and why).

If you're interested in chatting shoot me a message/chat and maybe tell me something about yourself or kinky interests or anything to help get the conversation started. It's so hard to respond to 'hey'.