I've seen so many posts here and elsewhere that emphasize what the poster is looking for. That's great in the sense that it helps get to the point, but it puts all the expectation on the person who responds. I'd rather have a conversation about what you want, and go from there! Of course I have to tell you about myself first (otherwise you have no idea if YOU'D even be interested), so here's some info:

About me:

Vanilla stuff: I'm 6'1", 38, white, 175lbs. Brown hair, brown eyes along with a neatly trimmed beard and glasses. No kids, never married and entirely unattached romantically. I'm a bit of a nerd (video games, comic books, sci-fi and anime are the most prominent nerdy things I enjoy, but I'm a fan of a wide variety of things) who really enjoys dark humor. I love being around people (and just meeting new people in general) but I also enjoy hanging out around my place and decompressing after a long day. I don't drink (don't mind if you do, and I actually really enjoy the bar atmosphere) and I don't use THC (again, don't mind if you do).

Non-vanilla stuff: I really enjoy going down, and love making my partner cum on my tongue. I'd definitely be down for an exclusively oral exchange, but it wouldn't have to stop there. When it comes to moving beyond oral, I enjoy a wide variety of positions and kinks, but I only really have fun when my partner is enjoying herself. Missionary, doggy, cowgirl (both kinds) and pretty much any other position that's great for you is probably going to work for me! When it comes to size, I'm slightly above average at 6.5" (I'm guessing you've worked with less/more before, so I know you'll be able to handle yourself). DDF, frequently tested and snipped (not saying bareback is a thing we'd be doing, just one less thing to worry about).

So, what do you want? Do you want to vent about that idiot Becky at work who won't stop doing [insert annoying Becky thing here] before riding your frustrations out on someone? Maybe you want to grab a drink, talk about how well things are going and then celebrate together with a no-pants party! We could play Mario Kart before taking turns going down on each other if that's what you're looking for. Or maybe you just want an escape from your typical routine, and this is going to be a fun way to get that. Let's chat about what you're looking for, what you're into and see if we align in enough ways to meet up!

I know I mentioned that this is all about you, but attraction has to go both ways. So, this is the part where I say I'm looking for someone who is local, HWP, around my age or younger, and who wants to relax and have fun.

I live alone in Downtown Minneapolis in a 1 bedroom (so I'd absolutely be able to host).

I don't have any pictures on my profile for privacy reasons, but I'd be happy to share some in a chat at some point.

Hopefully you read this whole post and are interested, but if not that's okay too! Not everyone is for everybody.

Have a great day/night! If I don't fit what you're looking for you, I hope you find someone on here who does!