Hello, few intrigued ones.. I'm 34 years old Dom from UK looking for a long-term sub who will be a companion in an kinky exploration journey.
I prefer to develop mental connection with the sub first and foremost, and I really like to chat endlessly about ideas, philosophies, dreams and nightmares. My Dom side is understanding and fair, albeit strict and demanding at times. I like to negotiate rules in the beginning and built the trust slowly before introducing more rules in the future. I tend to be sadist when punishing sometimes, though my subs health is always a priority for me. Aftercare is essential and it's also one of my favourite parts of the dynamic.
I believe a Dom's purpose is to develop his sub, making her not only a better submissive but a better person as well (of course this works both ways). That being said, I'm strict and tough as a Dom, keep in mind.
Vanilla wise I Studied Music, currently studying History just for the personal enjoyment. Love literature but hate elitists and opinionated parrots. Favourite writer is Maxim Gorky (I have a soft spot for Russian nihilist literature).
I have a lot of likes and I easily adapt them according to the sub limits (we cannot and should not have everything). I would like the other person to be open minded, willing to try anything as long as there is no permanent damage and generally eager to discover new things. Ofcourse I have some general and quite sensible limits like scat, permanent, family, blood, social suicide, face pics or vids (until trust develops) that if you are into them then sadly I am not the one for you.
Send a message if you are intrigued enough to discover more or ask questions. Thanks for taking the time to read !
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