Hi there! I'm J (but you can call me Daddy if you feel forward enough ;))

I am an experienced online Dom of 10 years. I do tasking, I roleplay, I'm more structured than a lot of other men on here.

What I'm looking for

I'm looking primarily for a sub, but I do not mind if there is some DDlg or petplay thrown in (by some I mean aspects or behaviors of, not that those are your main kinks).

I love personality. I don't want to get bored, I want to learn who you are physically, mentally and spiritually. Are you someone worth exploring?

I would love something to happen IRL if you lived close by, but I figure this to be mostly online.

I don't have a prerequisite for experience, you can have experience or be new, I have trained many times before. However, if you are new, I expect someone eager and attentive. If you have a chip on your shoulder, then we have no business talking.

Kinks

Kink to me is a lifestyle, not just play. It's the structure of our relationship, our dynamic with everything else living within.

Its much easier to mention what are not my kinks versus what is, but ill try to include as much that I enjoy, though we don't have to indulge in all of them. Whatever you're comfortable with (in alphabetical, in no particular order):

Bondage (Light/Heavy), Degradation, Impact Play, Nipple Play, Orgasm Control/Denial, Power Play, Sensory Deprivation, TPE

If you want to know more about my kinks, I have my BDSM test on my profile.

About Me

35, Tatted, vaxxed, left-leaning, 5'10, some definition in chest and arms, I work out regularly, however I have a bit of a dad bod from college/my WFH job.

My hobbies include the usual, film (including horror), I like various types of music and I collect vinyls, I like to dabble in gaming occasionally or going out and having adventures.

There's probably more I should add to this, but that leaves things open for discussion, yes? Send me a chat preferably, let me know what makes you a good fit, your kinks and a bit about you. It's difficult to fully capture someone in an ad or a response, but I think you'll give it your best, yes?