It's been a while since I had a D/s dynamic with anyone and I'd like to have some fun again.
My favourite type of D/s relationships were the ones that didn't push so hard on the kinks/fetishes or actual sex. Rather, it's the ones where the submissive (you) felt ownership over them and the necessity to show off and serve. The kind where they consider that they need to satisfy their Dom to whom they surrendered privacy, modesty, and freedom.
- Privacy: we'll talk about and openly discuss your body, sex life, life in general (avoiding identifiable information), daily happenings, hobbies, or anything I so choose. You are an open book.
- Modesty: at some point in our relationship, you will be expected to shed all modesty, strip down, and show off. This will happen all the time. It's not expected to happen from the start, but it will happen and be a prominent part of our relationship. You should be comfortable shedding your modesty as you do your privacy and freedom.
- Freedom: there will be times where I'll ask of you to fulfill some task or where I'll make a decision on your behalf (within the constraint of not negatively affecting your life outside this relationship/dynamic). These are tasks and decisions that could be on a whim, for my gratification, done to flex my influence as the Dominant presence in your life, or to steer you in a direction of my choice. These tasks can at times be sexual where the relationship will then dabble into the domain of sex.
So what about kinks/fetishes? From the above explanation, the bigger ones that shine would likely be the power dynamic itself (ownership & D/s), voyeurism, and task fulfilment/servitude. I'm not opposed to a submissive feeling humiliated or pushing their boundaries either, though, and training can also be fun. In the past I had submissives that wanted to lose some weight or get more toned and working that into the relationship was fun as well. Please discuss with me what your desires are to see if we can align.
This is an online relationship, and it'll likely stay that way. I prefer online as I like some distance between myself and others for personal reasons. Meeting up in person isn't out of the question per se, but it's not an expectation of mine entering this relationship and neither should you bid on that happening. I am initially just looking for some fun and I'm okay with the relationship fizzling out after some time and for us to move on. If it so happens that the relationship lasts longer, then great. In essence, we'll continue until either of us don't want to anymore and part ways respectuflly; there is no pressure to make this work as a life long arrangement, but there's also nothing stopping it form happening if it does.
You, the submissive, are: cis female, not overly obese (chubby is fine; my 600lb life is not), vocal and communicative, entering this dynamic knowing that you will be serving in a sexual in nature and for my sexual gratification, preferably within ages ~24-38, respectful of the fact that I'm 33 and have life responsibilities beyond this relationship (I will mirror this respect). Experience or inexperience doesn't matter.
You will be asked to send a clothed photo of yourself to serve as verification and for me to guage whether I want to continue entering the relationship with you - it may seem harsh, but the reality is that physical attraction plays some role here, and I'd rather stop before I hurt you later.
If you are interested or have questions for me, please reach out.
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