In early stages of sharing my desires with partner...
My gf of 4 yrs and i have a solid relationship. I am ready now to start sharing some of my desires with her as part of our sext chat...and pillow talk.
Ive shared some of.my fantasies:
Her out in a bar tipsy and horny, sexy dancing with a stranger. Me in the shadows watching. They are making out becoming sexual.
We are at a dayspa for massages. She gets a full body massage to orgasm. I tell her it could be a hot female massuese or male.
I tell her i fantasize about her setting up an Anon dating app profile. One securing her privacy. but she shares the contacts with me. I tell her i want her to flirt online with them (perhaps as i lick her)
She mostly deflects but isnt angry. She knows all these make me horny. And i stroke to them. She doesnt know how far id like to go on chxkold path. But i feel its a start. She ia quite shy amd vanilla sexually. Sex.chat in bed iant her thing But we have a good sex life.
Im.curious as to others approaches at beginning of their journey. Or experiences with similar partners.
Would like to chat to similar aged redditors 40-50s and in Melbourne if possible
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