Hello 🙋🏻‍♂️

I’ve been single now for nearly a year, and though I could be open to dating I don’t know that I’m ready for it right now. Having gone this long without I’ve been hoping I could break this dry spell and find a single woman that would be open to a steady friends with benefits relationship.

About myself:

I’m male, 40, single, disease free, Latin, 5’4, with long black hair, in good shape. I live in Nassau County, Long Island, and though I can host I am also open to travel.

I enjoy writing, big into movies, and love trying different foods. I’m into different types of music (the music collection on my phone would likely confuse the hell out of you 😂) but mostly enjoy rock and alternative music. I drink lightly and like to imbibe on weed every now and then.

I try to keep myself in good shape, and like to stay active. I try to stay consistent with the gym, enjoy walking, hiking, the beach, and generally eat well (gotta indulge a little every now and then 🍔 🍕 🍷).

As for you:

Please be single, between 35-60 (I know that’s quite a range but I enjoy mature women). No younger than 30 if you’re younger than 35 please.

I am open to any race, and don’t have any weird fetishes lol.

I do prefer you being single but if you’re married BUT separated that’s okay— I just don’t want to be causing problems for myself or anyone, and certainly don’t want drama for either of us.

Like I said, I can host in Nassau County but am open to traveling anywhere within Nassau and Suffolk County (anyone from a town by the water?), and the boroughs except Staten Island. I could be open to NJ, MA, and CT if the right woman intrigues me enough.

I would prefer that if this does work out that it not be too serious, and remain mostly physical. However, I would enjoy conversation and general companionship as well. I’m not a heartless son of a bitch lol

Please don’t be a Trumper lol— I don’t even think I need to go into it…

It would be lovely to exchange messages and get to know one another before we meet. I have photos to share (not dick pics…sigh, there’s a lot of that on here, ugh 🤦🏻‍♂️). I have long hair and have received compliments on my smile often being told I’m handsome and cute —just saying, not boasting lol.

Ideas:

•you come over my place and I give you a long massage with oil, followed by slow kissing by low light, then I please you, and then we please each other 😌 💆🏻‍♀️ 🌌

•I come over your place and find you in a robe with nothing else underneath. You take me by the hand to your room, and my heart is beating. You pour us each a glass of wine and afterward we begin to kiss so long we forget the passage of time… 🫠 🍷 ❤️‍🔥

Plus, it would be nice to actually sleep together wouldn’t it? 🛌

If any of this intrigues you then I would love to hear from you. I know Reddit changed its criteria for photo sharing so if you reply please tell me about yourself, and I will shoot you a response so we can exchange photos (nudes are welcome but NOT necessary). I love T & A but as long as I can see what you look like I don’t necessarily have to see you naked— at least not until the time is right of course 🙂😚