I’ll start by describing myself, because there’s no point reading on if there’s no attraction. I’m a big married nerd in my 40’s whose marriage has no physical intimacy. I’m 5’9” and 265 lbs.

I’m a firefighter and work a schedule that gives me most of my free time during the day on weekdays. Don’t get any ideas, I’m not getting invited to be on the calendar!

Geographically, south of Denver works best, but I’m open to anyone from Boulder to Colorado Springs.

Now, the other stuff.

I don't tend to specify any physical preferences because comparability is so much more important. I don’t care that much if you’re short or tall, thin or thick, blonde or brunette, black or white. I find most women beautiful and especially so when we connect as friends.

I’m looking for quality over quantity. I’m down for quantity when we can, but if our schedules don’t work I’ll wait. Anticipation just heightens the good stuff.

A couple things that I've found don't work well for me. These aren't deal breakers, as an old married round (I'm in shape, round is a shape.) guy I don't want to be too picky, but my experience in those situations hasn't been ideal.

Long distance: I find maintaining a chat relationship without an in person one difficult. I'm not saying I won't try, just that things always seem to drift off.

Schedule: I work an unusual schedule and it works best if you have daytime availability too. It's very hard to connect with someone working a traditional non-flexible 9 to 5.

Are you still here? Tell me what you nerd out on, what book you're reading, or something interesting I didn't think of.