I’m based in NYC and NC but travel every week for work all over the country. My job in finance has me on the road every week all over the US with some flexibility oftentimes in where I am.

I’m 38, fit, white, married and not looking to change my situation… but want a fun kinky girlfriend on the side. My ideal match is a fit/athletic woman who is active, funny, creative, can talk about current events and books over dinner, and either submissive and a switch or interested in exploring that. Basically someone who is sophisticated, enjoys travel, good food, and swanky hotels. Someone with whom I can actually have interesting conversations with at dinner, concerts, and the like, before and after we have some wild, hopefully kinky, sex.

I have had one AP in the past, it was a coworker and lasted a long while until she moved out of state. We still keep in touch but I’m now on the market for a new exclusive AP. I’m fit, with a great job and a family life with kids I don’t want to change. But I need to fill that kinky space in my life that is completely ignored at home.

I am happy to start online with the hopes we’d move to IRL pretty quickly. Since I travel extensively for work all over the US, hopefully you do too so we can sometimes be together also in places like Vegas or Miami for a “conference” :-)…

Ideally, we’d chat every day under cover here on telegram or whatsapp, and eventually see each other every one or two months or so, maybe less, maybe more, depending on life. I want to spoil you with nice dinners and fancy hotels and dresses and shoes you only wear for me. I’ll let you decide what you spoil me with…

Look forward to hearing from you if you’re interested. PS: I know from a prior attempt to do this on reddit that 99% of the accounts here are apparently fake. I promise I’m real. And worth it!