Hey everyone,

I’m 27, of Southeast Asian descent, and I live in London where I work in the legal sector. I’m 6’3”, with a slim, medium build. I’ve always been an active person, especially through football, and I’ve recently started working out at the gym more to try and keep my head straight.

After six years of being with my childhood best friend, with a marriage on the cards for late 2025, I found out that she had been unfaithful to me, and it crushed me in ways I didn’t know were possible. I’ve spent so much of my life building a future with someone, and to have that ripped away has left me feeling lost.

Right now, I’m not looking for sympathy, but I also can’t ignore the pain I’m feeling. It’s been hard. It feels like I’ve lost not only my partner but also someone I thought I would grow old with.

I know I’m not ready for anything serious — I’m not ready to date, to open myself up to someone new, or even to try and build another deep connection right now. I will not bore you with my sob story further, so, I’m here, being honest about where I am: I’m just looking for a simple, no-strings-attached (NSA) connection.

I would like someone who’s kind, patient, and understanding of the fact that I’m in a space where I’m not emotionally ready to give much more than a temporary, uncomplicated connection. Age doesn’t matter too much to me, but I would prefer someone not older than 40. What matters most is that you’re respectful of boundaries, understanding of my situation, and can bring some warmth back into a time that’s felt so shitty.

I’ve never had intercourse before, as my ex wanted to wait until after marriage. But now that my relationship has ended, I’m ready to step forward into a new chapter. I’m not seeking perfection or grand gestures, just a gentle, patient experience with someone who understands what this moment is for me. It’s not just about intimacy; it’s about finding some peace in the midst of the chaos I’m trying to navigate.

I’m a professional, well-educated, kind, and respectful person who values privacy, discretion, and mutual respect. I’m not able to host, but I’m happy to travel or cover the cost of a hotel room for us to keep things discreet and comfortable. I want to make sure that this connection, however brief, is something positive for both of us — no pressure, just mutual respect and understanding.

I know this isn’t for everyone, and I completely get that. But if you’re someone who’s open to something casual, sweet, and understanding, I’d love to hear from you. I’m not expecting anything life-changing, just a little moment of relief and connection as I work through this period of my life. I am happy to verify as long as you are too.

Thank you for reading. I really appreciate your understanding