I’m looking to know what it’s like to be with a woman who enjoys the idea of being a man’s trophy. Yes, you read correctly. 

If you love the idea of being the focus of attention when we go out and hanging off a man’s arm as his prized accessory, this would be for you. Drawing stares, disapproving or envious looks might excite you and you may enjoy making people wonder “what did he do to get his hands on her?”

I don’t have specific requirements other than you being conventionally attractive (ink and piercings welcome), can hold a conversation (about anything really, I’m well-read), and embrace your femininity. 

What’s on the other end of this post, you may be wondering. In me you’ll find a 41 y/o, 5’6”, established white collar professional of cuban/white background who’s built like a bear with a masculine outward appearance. I tend to dress conservatively…my mind is anything but. I’m open to all walks of the political spectrum. When it comes to what happens inside the bedroom or inside a relationship of any kind….well that’s no one’s business but ours, isn’t it?

I’m ambitious, appreciate the finer things in life but can be just as happy with the simple stuff. I have a dark, sometimes crude, and sarcastic sense of humor but underneath you’ll find a secret optimist and caring father figure (regardless of age). In some ways it’s not hard to please me and in others I’m not easy to impress

In general this would be a short or long term FWB situation. If the chemistry leads to something more serious you should know I’m married (roommate situation), have a girlfriend and we both are non-monogamous but I’m open to it. She is aware of my search.

Bonus points if you’re experienced with kink, enjoy BDSM dynamics, consider yourself a sapiosexual, or are neurodivergent. 

Looking forward to hearing from you.