Hope everyone reading this is had an amazing weekend and an awesome Sunday night!

So I recently found out there was a sub for the Mommy Domme and Gentle Femdom kink.

I had some sort of inkling of this dynamic, but I honestly never even knew there were subreddits for it!

That being said, I posted this on the MommyDom sub a few days ago, and was actually recommended to post it on the GentleFemdom sub as well! I thought all Femdom was quite aggressive with pegging involved. It has left me confused, yet curious!

I've been trying to figure out what type of fetish I've recently been into... And after talking it through with others, I have finally realized that I do have a gentle femdom kink... As well as a mommy domme kink as it spills into that category quite often. I know the two crossover with one another, but the very notion that I'd be into both led me to discovering many things about myself!

It has further emphasized that I indeed, have a praise kink. A strong praise kink that leads me to telling women, in detail, what I love about them. What I love about their style of fashion, or their favorite make-up looks, or their favorite pins or yarn to crochet sweaters and blankets and hats into.

I have had the pleasure of meeting wonderful women. Unfortunately, these same women have felt unheard, feelings invalidated, and thoughts brushed off. It makes me incredibly sad to hear about women out there who feel neglected and their interests/hobbies/passions are completely ignored.

I have wanted nothing more than to listen. Listen, engage, make their voice heard, and their feelings validated. I want to make them feel happy. I want to make them feel like people out there do care about them. Make them feel like there are people out there who enjoy listening... Who enjoy watching smiles grow from cheek to cheek. Everyone deserves some happiness from time to time. Even if they don't feel like they do!

This very notion has actually led me down a path... And down that path, my wires got crossed... Somewhere along the way!

Now, there is nothing that gets me more excited... And when aroused, instantly fucking hard... Than a woman who is happy. I love seeing people happy in general, but with sexual partners... It often leaves me standing at attention when their face starts to glow. Their smiles light up the entire room! People are so gorgeous when they're happy. :)

I know, you're reading about all of this and you're probably wondering where this all leads down to...

Well, if I had to set a naughty scene... A handjob or a blowjob where my partner isn't just focusing on me... But actually conditioning me through talking. Lots of talking. Yapping my ear off. Making sure that I'm listening to every word. I know, it sounds super counterintuitive, but I do actually pay attention! It is this very fantasy that has clouded my mind for months now. This very thought. This conditioning, almost as if molding me into the perfect toy for her. Conditioning me into falling in love with every single one of their interests, talking to them about their days, and even showing me her Pinterest board of what she'd like her new winter wardrobe to look like.

I know, it sounds very weird, and like... Not sexual at all... But it really is for me. It's probably the most attractive part of a woman for me. Her face, and her personality. Her smile, and her words.

I had some wonderful people reach out and actually ask me a few questions and expressed some interest! I thought to myself... Maybe I should try my luck posting this here to see if there are any women who enjoy this type of dynamic!

If you do, I'd love to talk! Genuinely!