This will get long, but I am curious to see where it could lead… Mid 40’s male with some expendable vacation time. What I am looking for is a connection with a normal-(ish) woman, someone who is not afraid of a safe, sane, and consensual adventure.

What I picture: Making an online connection where we get to know each other virtually, taking all the time needed to become comfortable enough to eventually meet. I would much rather take enough time to work out the awkward “getting to know” phase out of the systems before an actual in person meeting.

My ultimate goal is to find a place to visit on a long weekend, vacation type trip. The kicker is to find someone to enjoy the time with, and not have to worry about who she is personality and compatibility wise, basically a great friend who I am comfortable with and she is comfortable with me. Someone who I felt like I have known for ages. Someone who is happy with simply going out to a dive bar for drinks, get some local foods, see the sights, and enjoys sexytime.

About me: mid 40’s SWM. Heterosexual. Tattoos. Likes beers on down time. Blue collar skilled laborer. Enjoys cruddy cigars. Conservative, yet not wildly. Divorced. Grown offspring. Jeans and t-shirt with Hey-dudes and ballcap. DDF and tested regularly.

About you: 21 FEMALE, enjoys men. Body shape/size/color not a factor, just have a descent personality. I can get along with anyone, but there has to be some common interests.

Hard requirements: Be female. From birth.

Since I am smack dab central in the US, I will limit my travels to the lower 48. Obviously closer is better, but I also want to go somewhere I haven’t been before.

No hard drugs. I do not partake in any, including ganja. No judgement from me, but Im not interested.

No drama! If you have an SO that is going to be upset about this, it would be best to pass. Again no judgement, but I dont want a price on my head for messing with someone’s lady.

We have mutual attraction. You have a healthy libido. I never expect sex, but that is also kind of the point of this whole thing.

I will be staying at a hotel. A rental vehicle is a strong probability depending on my mode of transportation to get there. The majority if not all of the time spent there would be on me, but I do not have unlimited funding.

If this stirs up any interest, reach out! We can exchange pleasantries, photos, build some excitement, and see where things lead.