I am a 46 mwm, and yes, professional and clean, and think I am holding up well (not fat, not short but not overly tall either, funny in a sarcastic and dry way). I travel a bit, live in the north Philly burbs with occasional trips to NYC. (join me? meet me there?)

After having been on and off these boards for years, I realized that this whole thing is about the connection we make with each other, the buildup and anticipation, as much as it is about the (hopefully) intimacy. After reading countless posts, it feels like the common thread is that somewhere, we have lost a connection that we deeply need, be it mental, physical, or both.

Who doesn't want to think that someone finds them attractive....that someone is smiling just because they read your secret text? Who doesn't like the nervous anticipation of the meet, the door closing, and the outside world falling away with the passion we crave and deserve?

Maybe, like me, you've been here awhile...lurking, not quite ready to go where your wants and needs and desires are tugging you. Maybe you have just started searching...but do you know what you want? Then again, perhaps you are ready to dive right in, and go for it. Maybe, if you're say, 28 (I don't know, random numbers), with a good sense of humor, consider yourself attractive, and can give and take, you should write me and see if we can find a spark, a connection.

I want that one spark....that turns into a long, slow burn....with occasional pops and sparks to keep it interesting and fun. So...enough about me.

Tell me all about you. Tell me your reasons, your fantasies, your needs.Tell me about your day and what kept you going. What are you looking for? What lights your fires? What's that deep need you're here to fulfill? Tease me...and let me tease you. I promise you, we could make this very fun and exciting.

I hope that we can have a long chat about all this and more, soon. DM me, hit me up for chat. I'm waiting, patiently, for you.