Hello! I'm Derek and I would love nothing more than to chat with a Dominant woman and see where it leads. Im assertive in my everyday life and really want to be a boytoy behind the doors. My job is stressful and my stress relief is being the good boy I know I am. I do where business atire so if you enjoy your sub being dressed nice daily, look no further. Suit, belt, dress shoes the whole package! The weekends are the typical shorts and shirts though. Kinkwise I enjoy bondage, anal, spankings, cbt, edging, humiliation among other things. My limits would include anything really extreme or unreasonable. I am okay with semi related public things. Truthfully, I am okay with considering most things at least one time. Looking for something more long term but shorter works as well. I have been submissive for a few years now. I know what I want out of being a sub. The question is what do you want? I am your future toy and I want to please you. I do have a switch side but that only comes out with the right person and if it is allowed. I will never try to flip the script with my Domme!

This doesn't have to be an everyday thing but would like to hopefully chat daily. Im usually busy during the week but can make time during the evenings. Weekends also work! As for locstion, I'm between Tampa and Orlando so either direction works if you are local. We can meet up somewhere and have a casual date. I can host sometimes but i do have roommates. If you can host, even better. For online, I would love to meet up for a weekend if we hit it off. Can enjoy the Florida sun during the day and be your good boy during the evening! If you are not located in the US, we can give this a try. If the timezones dont match or we dont have a lot of time together, than it isnt mesnt to be. I also have experience online and in person. My last Mistress and I had real life interfere so we went our own ways. I will say she was great to me and we would still be together if nothing had came up. Im hoping the next woman is as amazing as a person!

I do have a toy collection. It is filled with a lot of things. I will leave that for the imagination. Do you want to see next to me? Or on me? I also am always looking to build my collection. If there is something you really love, I don't mind picking it up for you!

For what im looking for in a Dominant woman is both someone who i can talk to normally about our lives. As well as dominate both gently and rough. I myself prefer the more rough and verbal side but it is great if you are someone who can be both! Physical appearance doesn't mean as much as connecting socially and mentality. I want to learn what makes you enjoy dominating. I want to adapt to what you like. Please be somewhere between the ages of 19 and 50. I have experience being owned by older and younger woman than I. As long as you take care of yourself, I don't look for much more. Honestly, as long as you love to tie, gag and cuff me, I will be on my knees right away! Maybe Pegging?:)

For communication, we would chat here for a little getting to know one another. Eventually, we would move somewhere else. I am mainly looking for companionship with the kinky side attached. A fwb situation to put it plainly. This doesnt have to be an everyday thing. We all have busy lives but as much contact as possible. I am not looking for a serious relationship at this time. If that is something that develops naturally, I would not be opposed to it. We can go over that if something does happen.

Hobbies include sports, movies, travel, fitness and my dogs. Those are the main things i like doing but there are plenty of other things i enjoy on the side. Im 5'11, black hair, brown eyes, fair skin and a slim/fit build. I am getting in better shape for some upcoming vacations and personal events! Would love for my owner to give me workout tasks and mold me into a sexier toy. I have much more to say but i would prefer to chat and make that personable.

I will also point out i enjoy conversation quite a bit so if talking a lot isn't your thing, this may not workout. I want to connect with you. If you are wanting nothing more than a toy to play with, I can oblige but I would like to know that upfront. I am searching for that daily structure of submission and hope you csn give that too me. Im also there for you. Work is stressful? Tell me about it and let me give my perspective. I want to please and make you happy. But I also want you to enjoy yourself. I will stop rambling now or I'll keep repeating myself!

Im a pretty open book so message me if you think the two of us would be a good fit. If you could when messaging, include your name, age, where you are located, how ling you have enjoyed domination, your kinks, dislikes as well as what color would my gag be when you eventually put it on me. I would also love a picture included. Doesn't have to be anything sexual but to verify you are who you say you are. I have no issue sending pictures or videos if myself once trust is established. Include anything else you think i should know upfront! I really look forward to chatting to with my potential new Mistress and thank you for taking the time to read my post!

P.S If you read this far, say blue somewhere in your message:)