Hello! My name is Derek, a 26 year old nerdy subby guy from Canada. Are you tired of being a kink dispenser for guys who just want to get off once and run? Look no further! I am looking for someone who will be a genuine friend, not just a mindless kink fulfillment. If this is the sort of thing you're after, I hope you'll continue reading.

I'll start with a little about me. As I've mentioned already, I'm a big nerd. I'm super into video games, anime, collecting pokemon cards, basically if you think it's nerdy I probably am into it or at least have tried it before. The best example i could give is i know how to do the rubix cube lol. For those that also share some nerdy interests, I am currently watching delicious in dungeon and the games I've got on the go right now are Metaphor and Temtem Swarm.

I also have a bachelor's degree in accounting (numbers guy, just to keep piling on the nerd stereotype) and currently work in accounting. I am trying to find an accounting job that pays a bit more but yknow how it is. I've also been hard at work trying to get in better shape. I am 5'6", and at my heaviest weight I was 187. After a few months of work now I've been able to lose about 20 pounds or so, now sitting at 164 and feel and look great. I've always been a small thin kinda guy (front row on picture day every year of my life) but after university and covid back to back I had been gaining weight until I was more of a short and not so thin guy. I've got it back though and am now much more confident in my body.

Okay! now for the spicy stuff. I've already briefly mentioned how I sort of want more than just a quick one off online kinky session. I am looking for someone who I can form a genuine connection with. Someone where if we stopped talking I would be sad. Where if one of us was busy with life for a while we would miss eachother and be excited for when we can chat again. It doesn't have to be love necessarily, just a real bond between 2 people.

That being said, this post is on a NSFW subreddit. I am also hoping to have a mutually enjoyable kinky time mixed in, where we can banter and tease, maybe some fun tasks and kinky play sessions. My ultimate goal is for both of us to enjoy though, not just me getting all the fun, so we will definitely have to discuss and find out what works best for the both of us to enjoy it equally. Below is a list of kinks that I know I like:

-CEI (my biggest femdom related kink) -JOI receiving -Humiliating poses -Edging -ruined orgasms -Porn watching control (you decide what I can jerk off to) -interested in but have never tried Anal play -Dirty talk of all kinds -NSFW roleplay

If there are things you really like to make subs do, things that turn you on that aren't listed here, have no fear! I am very open minded and willing to experiment with alot of different kinks and fetishes out there, so I'm sure we can find some overlap or at the very least experience some new things together.

Okay! I think that's about the best shot I could shoot. Hopefully this post has a bit better luck than my posts usually have. I've been unable to find anyone with similar interests and desires as myself on here for a while now. I'm open to any and all messages, and hope to meet you soon! ^{_^}