I'd like to get more experience being tied up, so I'd like to find someone interested in a masculine rope bunny for play at the local dungeons. It's definitely a plus if you might be interested in dating or more as well - but I'm also game for just a play partner for public (as in, at the dungeon) rope/BDSM play.

I do enjoy crossdressing (you may still be able to see some pics in my post history), and am open to playing with a couple.

I'm 41 and have a 'professional' job. I am married, but we are poly and date separately. Anyone I date will meet her eventually. If we are just play partners it isn't required, but she would like to watch me get tied up at the dungeon, so it's likely to happen then too.

About me: 6'1", slightly chubby or 'dad bod' body type. I'm pretty easy to get along with, but if we can talk about anything geeky, nerdy, or technical, you'll probably have my ear. Board games are definitely an option for a first 'date', but coffee or drinks is also good.

I don't do hookups or sex on the first meeting.

Outside of rope, I'm generally on the submissive side of BDSM, though I can service top sometimes, when I'm into the person and know they are getting off on it. This is because I like pleasing my partners and seeing them enjoy things.

I am most attracted to femme presentations, but there's a lot of flexibility there, and personality matters way more than looks.

If you're wanting to date, please be a non-smoker, and ideally between 30-50. If you are just looking for a play partner, let me know that and maybe we can meet at a munch or play party to do a vibe check before planning to tie me up.