I like experienced kinky women, whether Older or Younger, I enjoy an age gap, and at 36 I'm looking in both directions honestly at times thinking of sixteen years apart on either side would be fine depending on the woman ofcourse, as there are many women I find equally alluring at 52 as at 20 given its 2025 and some older look far better than younger

Not swiping Apps, I'm on Reddit & FetLife to find fun setup. I'm Brown with the tattooed, shaved head & beard look. 6ft, currently the beefier use to workout dadbod, well groomed, clean, big on hygiene, mature man seeking good matchup.. I can host & prefer to, live by myself in Burnaby, Brentwood area by the Mall & Skytrain. I prefer later in the afternoons, evenings, nights given that I'm kept busy Monday to Friday business hours so best if you have similar schedule as me

I enjoy D/s core dynamic in bed, I am internally Hedonistic which leads into some outward Sadistic play too, I mostly have Daddy energy overriding all of it and am Dominant in bed. Not to make my kinks the entirety of my identity, I do believe kinky sex, Dom/sub energy is a natural inclination, in modern time we just use labels to try define everything.

I enjoy variances, in play as long as vibes sync. Kink roles, tags and labels aside, we do need to click first. Everything boils down to having mutual attraction with some sort of energy overall. I only enjoy kinky sex with someone who's genuinely internally driven/likes/needs it or it doesn't work

Generally speaking I don't think most of us are solely one way especially with kink. I enjoy both passionate & rougher sex, control with or no restraints, energetic-intense rhythm. I click the most with naturally submissive-servicing in bed. And, I like differences/contrasts in our ages/backgrounds/styles/interests, I like ranges of looks/personalities overall as long as there's some chemistry to build things off from

I prefer experienced women, open to amount of overlap in what we each like.. seeking a 'play partner' I sync well with, 'kinky friend with benefits' to indulge myself.. I'm not here looking for dynamics outside of private bedroom fun.. I'm busy enough and want something worthwhile to add to life

Overall, I do like a mix in bed: extended foreplay, gropey hot heavy makeouts, both the slower passion filled tempo and more rough varied spirited sex, going from tender to rough and aftercare, multiple orgasms for us both from repeated reciprocated oral and sex playing hours each rendezvous throttling through varied emotions in a more raw primally driven sex. Toys, restraints are nice add-ons yet not always necessary since it's about physical and mental connection, and I enjoy play like full body massage & ANR breastplay, erotic cuddling and physical tactile touching overall as well