Hey, glad you clicked through. Hopefully that means the title is relevant to you and you're looking for a similar situation.

I'm 41 years old from the US but now living in SE Asia for the past 5 years. I have about 7 years of experience in having and maintaining online Dom/sub relationships, but it's been a while since my last and I really miss it. Like, I really miss having that unique and special connection with someone. Setting rules, scheduling tasks, creating little rituals and routines, and of course the playful banter and even more playful sessions. Wardrobe control, orgasm control, speech control, edging, free use, discreet play, and light pet play are my main kinks. I want that in my life again so here I am.

Aside from the TPE and kink aspects I also want a genuine connection. Some vanilla aspects we share where maybe we mix the kink into sometimes but they still exist even without kink added. Online dynamics can be difficult to find that vanilla aspect but gaming is one of the most common and easiest to add in as a foundation. With that in mind I'm looking for someone who likes or is open to things like Stardew Valley or the new Luma Island (on Steam). I'm open to other cozy games though so if you have a different preference, feel free to share it! I'm not into competitive games though so stuff like LoL, Valorant, OW, etc. are all misses for me. Fighting games are an exception though. Non-cozy non-fighting games I love include: Baldur's Gate 3, Guild Wars 1, Mass Effect, and Elder Scrolls Online. Would love to jump into FFXIV with someone (tried solo, pass).

Besides the kink and the cozy gaming, I love animals (have 4 cats), love music (many genres & languages, am learning piano/keyboard), and love puzzles (I'm addicted to my Variant Sudoku app). I teach ESL online to adults so having conversations is literally my job, please be able to participate as well. :)

Potential Dealbreaker: Bolding that because I want to be sure you're informed before you message me. I am ethically non-monogamous and partnered. We've been in a relationship for 12 years and have lived together for the past 4 years. We're open with each other about our relationships. I've had patners, she's had partners. We respect everyone's privacy and prefer scheduling dates/events in advance so everyone knows who is available when. It's a huge dealbreaker for many so I'm making it very clear here.

As a final sidenote, chatting and texting and communication can be 24/7, there's no boundary on that, but as my work takes up my afternoons and evenings, my mornings are my only consistent guaranteed window of availability for dates, gaming, and private time. Still curious or interested after reading all the details? Message me. Chats are unreliable but you can try your luck.