So I've made other posts on reddit about what it is I'm searching for, and you can read them for more details if you're curious. Being goth or alt isn't a requirement, just a preference. I am not currently looking for romance, though I am open to it. Mainly searching for a friend I can flirt with, spend time with, and be sexual with.

To make it simpler for here, as this is a less kink-focused subreddit, I'll say that I'm searching for an online fwb situation that is open to meeting in person and possibly relocation. Someone that I can flirt with, be kinky with, but also be a friend and companion to. Someone who I can game with, talk about life with, vent to, etc.

I am US based, westish coast, but open to those beyond the US borders, though with the understanding that it will be difficult. I am looking for someone who is comfortable with the idea of eventually moving to in person, and likely relocation as well.

I'm a huge nerd with nerdy hobbies. I game, I read, and I've been getting into writing, and am currently working on my first attempt at a fantasy novel. I enjoy single player and multi-player games, albeit primarily on pc. Lately I've been playing Warhammer 3 and Project Zomboid, but would love to get back into things like Stardew, minecraft, or even check out Marvel Rivals with someone.

I am not skinny, nor particularly tall, but I'm working on it. I'm 5'8", half Korean, and very much bearish in physicality. I lift heavy and am strong, but have a more dad bod/power lifter physique. I understand that that's not for everyone. Further, I have dark brown curly hair, Grey blue eyes, a full beard, and have been told I have a lovely voice. Happy to provide pics and a voice note on request.

As I have mentioned, I am looking for someone who tends to fit the more goth/alt aesthetic, it's my preference. As unfair as it might sound, being a bigger guy, I tend to prefer slimmer women. But that doesn't mean I don't like thick or curvy women either. Just a preference. Height doesn't matter to me, and I would prefer someone younger than me, at least 21 if possible.

I ask that you are someone who is open to communicating regularly, and communicates regularly and honestly. I'm not saying I need you constantly on your phone, I understand life gets busy. I get busy too. But I would like to try to achieve daily communication. I ask that you be single, monogamous, and child-free as well, as I am all of those.

Thanks for reading, and I hope to hear from you.