Any of these apply? - Curious about BDSM? - Looking for a fun, safe outlet from your busy week? - Enjoy being controlled and are looking for the next step? - Been doing some research and now wanting to give it a try? - Maybe you are just getting out of a relationship, or want some practical skills to get into a relationship?

I offer an online BDSM-lite, introduction into the dynamic. It is perfect for beginners or those with busy lives. It's flexible, letting you explore this side of yourself, even if you are relatively inexperienced, in a long-term relationship, or just looking for a safe, online environment to explore your feelings.

You can feel supported, owned, and controlled, but in a modern way that acknowledges that you must still be a bad-ass woman in your day-to-day life.

I have significant experience with guiding, training, and supporting submissives new to the dynamic, having been involved in in-person and online BDSM for over 12 years.

This relationship has rules, structure, and shared goals, but it also involves real thoughts,>!!< real feelings, and an openness that comes with a genuine connection. Taking the time to establish this connection is very important.

What I offer is task based. This typically starts at one task a day, with text chatting throughout, to reinforce the subspace. Tasks start slow, with writing & discussion tasks, but orgasm control, edging, hole training, clothing control, and submissive sexual acts are all part of what I'd expect my submissive to work towards eventually. The focus is on control, dominance and submission. Explicit consent is, of course, required for everything that we do!

From me, you receive unwavering support, encouragement, and attention. I want to hear about your day. Tell me about your crappy day at work. Let's talk about whether you should take night classes to finish your degree. Encouragement to go work out? I'm there. That's what this about. Shared enjoyment, fun, and support.

A little about me. I'm 33, from New Zealand originally (still have the accent), but currently living in the US. I am in a long-term relationship, but my partner is a-sexual, and so is very supportive of this being my outlet. I am very driven, with a corporate career in technology. I love to travel and explore new places, be it a new city, country, or hiking trail. I love games of all kinds, from computer to tabletop and board games. I am 6 foot , 160 pounds, fit, blue eyes, and like to keep active.

If you're interested, message me with your first name, age and what you’re looking to get out of this. Let's start the conversation and go from there.