First of all - happy new year! i hope you had a great start into the new year.

Hey, this is going to be a long one so read carefully please!

Im Dustin 26 from germany and i am looking for something longterm. Having a connection to someone that is deeper than casual fun is something i desire. I would love someone to be more than just a piece of meat to get off to. Be my friend - tell me about your day - about your day to day struggle - your archivements.

What i am looking for is a friend that wants a genuine bond. It does not need to be the closest of them all - but i would be up for that! But who exactly is Dustin?

One of the biggest impacts in my day to day should be that I'm highly gifted in logical and mathematical thinking – something I neglected for too long. This lead to my desire to have a clear communication. I've been training on improving communication skills, social skills and became quite good. Not an extrovert but can go out of my shell.

That feat also shaped the way my career went. I'm into Software Engeneering / Development since about 6 years now and did study financial computer science in the evening, completed my bachelors degree in may.

Everything in all i do fit the stereotype of a nerdy dude, not so much physically, but definitely in personality. Hygiene, of course, is very important to me.

Friends would descripe me as being nerdy - facionate about things that interest me - i do hyperfixate a lot. I do like tech, board and computer games and movies shows.

That’s a basic overview of me – the part I’d feel comfortable sharing with anyone.

Buuut - i am looking for more than that and I want to catch your attention as a potential partner. So, let’s dive into my other traits!

I do tend to be a soft dom and want some mutual respect. The partner i desire would be my safespace - just like i would be hers. But i can be demanding aswell.

I've been lurking for some time here and many seem to have some traumata. I'm not entirely sure about traumas I might have experienced. As far as I know, I'm doing fine, and past events don't affect me anymore. Still, opening up and sharing those experiences can be a way to bond, right? There are a few things I've never shared with anyone before… maybe it's time?

One of my biggest turn-ons is submissiveness – seeing someone let go and give themselves completely to me. The idea of having someone mindlessly devoted to me, letting me use them as I please, is something I deeply desire. While I'm not very experienced in this area yet, it's something I've fantasized about for a long time, and I'd love to explore it further.

There are many more things about myself that i can tell you about - safe and not safe for work. So if i caught your interest i would love to talk to you and build a connection together!

PS: Im quite vocal - i never got rid of the german accent but other than that - this should be a plus for the time until you move to europe.

Please include the word 'Apple' while adressing me. I would like to make sure you read what i am about.

So - as i said in the beginning, i hope you do have a wonderful start in the new year and i hope i'll hear from you