Hi there, long story short. Looking for a long-term monogram-ish sub relatively close to northeast of the US.

Me: 40, 6’1, 186lbs, single, Asian, biotech professional. Fit and athletic. Non-smoker but social drinker. An adventurous person both outside of the bedroom and inside. A soft dom that prefers praising as much as providing punishments, but prefers loving over humiliation and degradation. I don’t talk down to anyone.

Experienced in impact play, restraint play, anal, teasing play, control/deny orgasm, etc. I like to guide your life, from big things to small; from advice of life events to what to wear to make you feel good. I do have few limits, but let’s save that when we click. I like open communication and transparent discussion, which leads to deep connections rather than just surface-level understanding of each others. I like you craving for my guidance and instructions sometimes throughout the day, but I respect both our life schedules so please don’t be 24/7. I like to chat it out, take the time and let the connections grow. I’m not looking for something short term or one time. I want us to know each others first.

I don’t need you to be local but ideally be within drivable distance. If we really click, travel is not a problem for me; hopefully for you too, so I’m also open to online connection too. Overall please be 25yo and willing to meet in person one day. I don’t mind whether you are hardcore or soft. I don’t mind you are married or not. I also don’t mind if you have kids or not. I am not looking for anything serious at the moment, so I don’t mind if you are not too. If you are seeking something serious, just please be aware. I know what I want and what I’m looking for, so I hope you know what you want and what you are looking for too. Please be willing to openly communicate; regular communication is a must. Please be willing to swap photos and verify. Please do not ask for something illegal.

If you read all the way here, I appreciate that. Drop in a message if you are interested, and tell me what you love about being a sub, and what please you as a sub. Looking forward to hearing from you.