Professional Asian-American gentleman (36 years old, 6'1", 160lb) seeking a meaningful monogamous long-term partnership. I approach life with warmth and intellectual curiosity, valuing both the depth of emotional intelligence and the spark of genuine connection. I've had a highly successful and rewarding career, allowing me to live flexibly and generously to craft the kind of lifestyle and relationship I envision.

With a PhD in a STEM field, I am a former academic and currently in senior management at a tech startup. I travel frequently for work and mainly split my time between Detroit and Boston, with less frequent stops in San Francisco and New York. My twenties were marked by worldwide wanderlust, each destination leaving its imprint on my worldview. When not in a suit and tie (my preferred attire), you'll find me pursuing my passion for photography and various other creative interests. For a first date, I'd love to take your portrait in a photo walk (and try to convince you that I'm the next McCurry/Leibovitz/Hurley), or take a stroll through a gallery, pretending to understand modern art while secretly preferring the gift shop.

While I don't like to adhere to stereotypical labels, I naturally embody what some might call a gentleman or soft dominant - someone who leads with patience and nurturing guidance rather than strict control. I believe in building trust through mutual respect and clear expectations. As a natural protector and guide, I find joy in providing structure while celebrating achievements and offering gentle correction when needed.

My ideal partner is elegant, intelligent, and finds fulfillment in a complementary dynamic. She's drawn to high standards and takes pride in exceeding them, finding deep satisfaction in pleasing her partner, leading to mutual growth. She's comfortable being both sophisticated in public and uninhibited in private. I appreciate a woman who takes pride in her appearance and carries herself with grace, whether we're at a black-tie gala or enjoying a quiet evening at home. I seek someone who values deep connection and passionate intimacy. You should be comfortable with gradually exploring boundaries and desires within a framework of trust and mutual consent. The right match will appreciate firm guidance balanced with tender moments, finding satisfaction in both giving and receiving pleasure.

Looking for a genuine connection with someone who understands the beauty of traditional roles while maintaining her own identity and aspirations. If you're drawn to a partnership that balances respect with passion and structure with spontaneity, I'd love to hear from you. Discretion and direct communication are paramount to me. If these words resonate, I'd love to begin a conversation and explore where our paths might lead.