Hello, I'm a 28 year old dom in NYC looking for a submissive interested in a long-term relationship. To start things off, here's a few facts about myself:

• Physically: I'm white, 150lbs, 5'9", and I have medium length brown hair with a face that is normally clean shaven. Slim build with a fair amount of muscle.
• I don't smoke, drink, gamble, or do any drugs aside from my daily dose of caffeine. I consider myself a fairly responsible person and don't have any plans on changing that.
• I'm clean. I do my laundry, wash my dishes, keep up my appearance, and so on.
• I'm STD free and generally in good health.
• I don't have any interest in starting a family or having kids in the long-term. I plan on getting a vasectomy in the near future.

I'm looking for a girl that would be interested in getting to know each other and eventually entering a dynamic together. Ideally this would be a long-term dynamic but I'm also open to something shorter.

As for what this dynamic would look like, first and foremost I'm really looking for someone that I can take care of. To me, being a dominant means being able to bond with my sub and find ways to make sure they are happy. I love to spend time together watching movies, talking, going out in the city, etc. I want to be the rock that they can lean on whenever they are feeling down or lost. I don't really need a whole lot of support myself since I've gotten pretty good at dealing with my own problems. However, I do want to know I mean something to my sub and that I am a positive influence in their life.

I also want to show my sub how to take care of me and the things that I like. I would hope that my sub wants to take care of me in the same way that I want to take care of them. I like to set rules, give tasks, and create rituals that work for the both of us. Some of these would be sexual but many are not and they are intended to give my sub ways to show that she cares. Depending on what's going on in her personal life these may be more strictly or loosely enforced. For a better idea of some of my kinks, here's a non-exhaustive list:

• Dirty talk
• Praise and degradation
• Orgasm control
• Pet play
• Training and conditioning
• Light bondage
• Spanking and slapping

And here are some things I'm not interested in:

• Bathroom play
• Knife / gun play
• Generally anything that could cause serious harm.

Lastly, here are some things I ask of you:

• Be over 18.
• Be relatively close to NYC.
• Be single.

If the above describes you and you are interested, send me a DM and we can get to know each other better. I'm open to many things or just chatting so don't hesitate to reach out. Hope to talk to you soon! :)