Hello and thanks for reading! This is a smidge of a novella, but I want to make sure I'm being crystal clear about what I'm looking for.

I am a caucasian middle aged dad, divorced just over a year ago. I'm a nice guy, warm-hearted, very easy-going, relaxed, intelligent, well-spoken (most of the time), a cunning linguist.

I don't want to just jump right in as I need conversation and some sort of connection, even if it's just a basic one. I am more attracted to intelligence and a good sense of humor, someone who is grounded and has a good head on their shoulders. I'm looking for only one regular female friend who enjoys being pleasured and likes hanging out with a kind, gentle, easy-going man. I'm very attentive, have endurance, and tend to get lost when I'm serving.

I would love to explore a D/S dynamic, but not with a mean or cruel streak. This would include face-riding/sitting, eating from behind, whatever you need to help you get your rocks off.

Ideally, I'm looking for a thicc AA woman (not a requirement) who craves this kind of attention and has no problem with being greedy and taking all the pleasure for herself. Cleanliness and DDF is a must!

Please reply and let me know a little bit about you. Some good conversation starters are providing your age, location, and what kind of things you'd like to try, or what you know you like. If you'd like a pic, send me some first.

I'm not super hung up on looks just so long as you have the right attitude and take care of your appearance. Regular meetups are desired. Also, be close to my location. If you're more than a half hour drive, this probably won't work. I'm in the central suburbs, barely a mile north of the city.