I take great enjoyment in all things bra and boob related. I'm very jealous of the femininity and wonderful curves that bras create, and the exciting colours and styles that they can be. It's amazing how different it's possible to make boobs look in different bras and tops, I find myself wondering in quite a non-sexual way how it's possible to tailor your boobs to different occasions and outfits, depending on the audience and event. There isn't really a male equivalent and it's sad that we don't get to ornament our own bodies so much.

So I guess there is this natural fascination, combined with a curiosity, wanting to feel pretty and also slightly jealous that I don't have some lovely boobs of my own and I will ask you endless questions about your experiences of having boobs.

I've tried the odd bra or two on before and have been disappointed how unflattering they are. But maybe I need to keep on searching, and take some advice, and just put myself out there a bit.

I'm quite happy to just chat about this, for you to talk me through your bras and what effect they have, how they make you feel and how you chose them. Maybe you can share links to them in online shops so I can get a visual idea.

Or if comfortable, you could lay out all your bras, take a photo and talk me through the same. I guess this is the same really, but feels a bit more naughty and real.

Or if we get on really well and we convince each other we're not mad, maybe we could meet and i could try some on in a safe public space?

If you've read this far without dismissing me, then well done, and I would be so excited to receive a red chat notification! 🙂