ATTENTION: The following CnC/Rape ad will contain elements of manipulation, objectification, obsession, stalking behavior, and primal play.

These are the kinks that I've enjoyed for quite some time, and I've become quite good at them. I'll be more than happy to provide (consensual) evidence of previous encounters- but I'm not here to share porn, swap fantasies, or educate the inexperienced.

This is not for someone who doesn't already know what they want, why they want it, and how to go about getting it safely. If you are new, or unsure, then I suggest diving into your local events scene and attend a few seminars, or read subject-specific literature.

"Informed. Enthusiastic. Consenting."

This is my mantra, and I will take as much time as I deem necessary to determine whether or not I'm ready to move forward with a potential liaison.

This seems clinical, but we'll come out better for having done this before things get too intense.

I will inform you to the best of my ability about any and all potential risks of my preferred play stuly.

Enthusiasm is difficult to convey through text, yet easy to fake in person, so please understand if I take extra time. Nerves, and jitters, are expected and excused. Nothing will happen until we both have no doubts that you want what I have to give.

Sometimes we don't know what we do/don't want until we are in the middle of it. This is also expected. Your consent is fully revocable, unilaterally, for any reason.

I don't care if I've hit the vinegar strokes, or not. Regardless of what I say, and how I act, I am always in control of my body. If you revoke consent, then the scene ends and aftercare begins (if desired).

Our first in-person meeting will always be public, and neutral. Low stakes- easy to excuse yourself and move on if the feeling isn't right.

Enough housekeeping! Here's the fun part.

Don't forget- it's all just pretend at the end of the day 😉

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I'm the loving husband, and kind stranger you see walking his dogs every morning. You probably see me out tending the trees in my front garden, and reciprocate as I pause to adjust the brim of my big floppy hat with a wave and a big goofy grin.

My neighbors know me as the man who brings them a bottle of homemade probiotic soda as a housewarming gift. The man who brings a basket of fruit syrups, homemade liqueurs, jams, and marmalades.

If a tornado takes shingles, then I help tarp the roof. If it takes fence posts, then I add new ones. Same for siding, and minor landscape repair.

I do my best to leave a small, yet positive, impression on everyone I meet. It's just the kind of person I am.

But am I the kind of person you need?

I will do all in my power to ensure that, when you're with me, you'll never know if the hand on the back of your head will stroke your hair, or force you onto your knees and fuck your throat until you gag and spit.

When I give hugs, I like to completely envelop you with my long arms and pull you tightly into me.

When I hold you tight, I want you to realize just how easily I could snap you into pieces if I ever felt like it.

When I hold your hand, I want you to know that you couldn't pull away from my grip, even if you wanted to.

Whenever I touch you, I want you to understand just how small and weak you are when compared to a predator like myself.

I want you to feel safe and secure, yet also trapped: like a canary in a golden cage.

I like to use my size and strength against my subs.

To initiate sex by grabbing people by their hair and dragging them to the bedroom. The more they pull away, the more they hurt themselves.

To make my partners taste how turned on they are. I  like to shove my fingers deep into their pussies, and then force them down their throat

To make people assume positions, crawl, and beg for what I give them. Doesn't matter if it's pleasure or pain. If I'm giving it to you, then you will beg for it, accept it, and thank me for it.

I like to give firm and rough grips on the arm and wrist that cause bruises, hard slaps to remind brats of their place, and forced free use, no matter when and where.

You may not even be allowed to wear any kind of bottom except for a skirt around me, either. No panties. I want easy access to what's mine. That way, if I get sick of your attitude, and decide that you need correcting, I'll be able to do so with minimal obstruction.

If I cum in you, and you decide to waste that cum by letting it spill out, then I'll force you to lick it up

If I decide that I want to use you, then it will happen.

Nothing you say, other than your safe word, will stop me.

Good girls, who recognize their place and offer themselves to me when I (or they) desire, will be treated with all of the kindness and softness that I can muster. If you want an experience that is grounded in passive coercion, and the threat of violence, then the most resistance you will offer is making me force your legs apart.

Then, there are those of you who like to fight, and need to be reminded of where they stand. I treat fighters on a case-by-case basis, and escalate based on the severity of their behavior.

Light grips on the neck will escalate to me choking you out and breeding your unconscious body. If you come to, and start up again, then I will happily put you back down.

If you desire a truly cruel and violent experience, then you will fight me with every ounce of strength that you have. I want to see how fierce you think you are.

If I have my way, then you'll never feel truly at ease. Even the tightest and most genuine feeling hug could quickly become a violent assault.

You'll be just a warm fuckdoll who gets to play like she's human when around other people.

No matter what I do to you, who I give you to, or how much you hate what is happening in the moment, you will recognize that you are at your most beautiful when your makeup is ruined, your body aches, and your holes leak. And still, you will thank me for it.

I am excellent at maintaining a sweet tone and kind smile when I'm punishing someone, or treating them cruelly.

You may actually think that you deserve it, even when I'm just hurting you because I want to see you cry.

You'll start to overanalyze my body language, and attempt to figure our if there is any malice behind my warm smile and kind eyes. Every gesture I make towards you, large or small, will case your heart to jump.

Will I stroke your face, or will I slap it? Will I run my fingers through your hair, or will I grab a handful and drag you to the backyard so I can spray you with the garden hose?

Do I really want to snuggle, or am I waiting for you to relax, just so I can take advantage?

I want you to always be on the back foot, and in fear of what I may do to you. But I also want you to always know that I will never push you beyond the limits that we set beforehand.

Sometimes I'm a little scared of what I'm capable of, and who I become when I'm "in character," but I think it enhances the rush for me when all is said and done.

As long as the person I'm with consents 100%, and I don't have any worries about their communication abilities, then the only limits are the ones we agree upon before a session or scene begins.

I can say that my kinks stem from trauma. I've found that I get release, both mental and sexual, from being able to express that kind of malice, but on my own terms, in an environment that I know is safe and that I have control over.

Well, you have control over. As the sub, the real power rests with you. I can only do what you consent to. Anything else is just abuse masquerading as kink.

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I know that this was a lot to read, but I try to take a kink with so much potential for danger very seriously.

If you're curious:

My ever expanding list of kinks includes: CnC/Ravishment, throat fucking, forced bi, face slapping, spanking, forced orgasms, multiple orgasms, anal training, collars, mental conditioning, bruises, choking, takedown play, rope/ribbon bondage, free use, pet training, and (my personal favorite) breeding/creampies.

I'll leave you with a few questions. If you want me to respond, then you will answer them.

What do you want the most in a potential relationship? (Play partners, short term, long term, etc)

What kind of dominance best fits your flavor of submission? (Domineering, doting, daddy, etc.)

What are your hard/soft limits?

What is it about your role that you enjoy the most, and how can I facilitate scenarios that satisfy both of our wants and needs?

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I am enm/poly: you don't have to be friends, but I always disclose.

Thank you for taking the time to read this ad. I hope to hear from you soon!

• The Predatory Plant Daddy