Thanks for stopping by - I'm hoping this post will catch the attention of a cool, attractive, likeminded woman to have some risqué fun with. Used.tomlive here previously had quite a good time with this kind of thing but am now only passing through for a few days. As such I am expecting this to be a one-off, but definitely not against more if a real spark is apparent. Either way, I think having a connection that goes beyond the purely physical is really important for then what goes on in the bedroom so would hope that we genuinely do like each other's company and could have a conversation.

As the title suggests, I'm looking for something quite specific that can be a little more difficult to find when on the normal dating scene, but here I guess we both know what we're looking for, know exactly what we like, and there's a bit of social safety in the anonymity of what we get up to.

Essentially, my idea of great encounter would involve a meet in person, seeing if we click, and then building up the tension from there going a little something like this - eyes fixed, our bodies moving closer, an accidental touch of the hands (was it accidental?), a stroke of the thigh, brushing the hair from your face, a playful squeeze of my muscles, I pull you closer, your hips against mine, I run my hands over your body, you feel me pressing against you, my strength, your scent, I lean in and we kiss. It feels amazing and we both know we want to take it back for more. Once in the bedroom I can barely control myself: spanking, pinning down, picking up, hair pulling, light choking, throwing around, deep, hard fucking and plenty of dirty talk. Not ever crossing over into aggressive - unless that's your thing. Ultimately I'm talking about it being rough in a passionate, got-to-have-you-now kind of way, mixed in with more gentle moments that contrast together for an incredible session, after which we fall exhausted into each others' arms.

I should make it clear that pleasuring a woman, however it is that she likes it is the single biggest turn on for me, and want you to be into it rough as much as I am. Watching, feeling and listening to a beautiful woman writhe, shake and moan in ecstasy is always just incredible. I love going down on a woman and can happily do so for hours - forced orgasms are pretty dominant too after all. And if you have any suggestions of your own I'm more than happy to hear them.

I also understand the importance of having a connection with a person and usually look for someone I could also have an intelligent conversation with either side of mind-blowing, rough, passionate sex - I find it just makes whatever goes on in the bedroom (or elsewhere) so much hotter. As such, I'm happy for some online chat to start with and then that meet for drinks to see it there's chemistry. Also, given the nature of the type of sex, ensuring you feel completely safe throughout is paramount for me, and I know it would be important to feel comfortable during the whole process of setting this up and am happy to oblige with whatever I can do to facilitate that.

About me: I'm 30 years old, six foot tall, brown hair, blue eyes, slim-athletic build, educated, work high pressure job and frequently busy. In my spare time I enjoy keeping fit, going to live music, reading pop-science. I'm happy to share pictures and verify once I know you're as genuine as I am (might even be some pics of me linked to a previous post), however I do prefer discretion, hence the Reddit post rather that the apps. I'm Cardiff based normally but staying in a hotel until Wednesday morning. Happy to chat a bit here first to see if we click and start setting some boundaries (use of protection, sexual health checks, etc.), then arrange a no-pressure meet somewhere in public to see if the spark really is there and make sure all feeling safe and comfortable. After that we can take things from there if still keen and hopefully continue having a great time with each other.

Look forward to hearing from you,

Mark x