Name: Ginger. Age: 38 Gender: non-identified, AFAB - default to female Pronouns: she/they Orientation: pansexual, sapiosexual, demisexual
Hobbies/Interests: - reading - following sports - tv/movies - gaming - curating/organizing/optimizing excessively organized collections (ie: porn, infographics, kink resources) - musical theater and Broadway junkie - writing - educating people about sex/kink/disability and the intersectionality of the three - running my orgasm denial server
Kinks: - orgasm denial - TPE & power exchange in general - extreme degradation - gooning - overstimulation - being brought to tears (emotional and desperation tears are so much better than physical pain ones) - hypnosis/conditioning - humiliation - being held accountable for tasks that I have to do in my day-to-day life - lines and writing tasks - objectification - Bruises I can wear with pride - DD/lg - emotional masochism - impact/pain play - mind fucks - throwing myself under the bus and digging holes with Dom/mes :digger: - exhibitionism (online only - voice especially but being made to show my face too) - a hand around my throat and a fist in my hair putting me in my place - being passed around by strangers with my lovense toys for hours - bladder control - laughing while playing - curious about tickling - attention of any kind. - CLEAR, CONSISTENT COMMUNICATION - CONSENT - using kink as an opportunity for self-reflection and personal growth
Limits: - non-negotiated communication denial/ being ignored/ long periods of silence that haven't been given a heads up for or have a reason why they couldn't tell me (long is relative to the frequency we talk in that dynamic and emergencies happen but if it's a repeated thing, it is a limit.) - heavy nipple pain - feet - bodily fluid in mouth (any fluids including cum) (some fantasy play around this is fine and sexy just not the actual thing because of my OCD triggers) - scat - illegal - bigotry - age play - permanent damage - CUMMING WHEN ON DENIAL - inflexibility to my disability and mental health issues as they arise - inability to follow basic boundaries set in my profile and intros
Anything Else: - I am owned by two parrots. You will very likely meet them if we spend any meaningful time together. - I have a disability and use a wheelchair and will joke about it in awful ways. But there is literally nothing you can't ask. I'm completely comfy with it so you can be too. I am not gonna say I am an open book, because that is cliché. Instead I will say that I am a slut spread eagle on the bed awaiting your questions with antici---pation. ;) - I do not know how to vanilla, like at all. - I typically only play with people 30 . - Voice play is a need for me. Even if you cannot talk, being able to listen and use my moans against me matters. Text-only doesn't really work for me. - I mostly sub and when I do Domme, only specific people bring it out of me. If we haven't interacted, I will be very unlikely to want to Domme you. - I work for a professional sports team, and I will aggressively argue that my city is the best in the world—because it is. - I am too intense and direct for some, but I am all love. I have opinions, and my identity as a submissive does not negate my right to express them. Rapport and respect will earn you reverence and my yielding to your preferences, but I will never stop thinking for myself.
I am seeking a 24/7 TPE dynamic with an experienced Dominant looking for a kinky and personal connection in which we both can enjoy and evolve.
as of 12/13/2024, I have not cum in 109 days and don't know when I next will...
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