Hey.

I don't know what you're looking for, but I can say I'm looking for one thing: companionship. I realized long ago that a big part of a sexual relationship for me is caring for another person: taking them out for nice meals, doing favors for them, taking away mental load etc. I talked with this to a friend at one point and they described this as "princess treatment". I've now decided I don't like that term.

Don't take this the wrong way: you will be treated like a princess. But princesses in the stories are usually damsel-like and childish. I want to build something complete and mature. I want to make plans for us and pick you up. I want to listen to how your day went while we go to a nice restaurant or I cook a meal for you. I want to tell you about my dreams and share music I like with you. I want to develop a sexual connection so intense that I can make you blush at any moment.

I want you to know the feeling of my hands on your hips as I brush my fingers across your thighs. I want to be able to hold your chin in my hands and look you in the eyes and have you know you'll soon be bent over in ecstasy. I want you to now the feel of my lips on your body, teasing you just the way you like. I want you to know by my glance that I want you.

Let's have deep, passionate vanilla sex. Let me tie you up and starve you of my touch until you beg for me. Let me spank you until your skin is red then hold you while I gently rub it better. Tie me up and make me worship you. Deny me you until I bring you bliss with my tongue. Let's explore every inch of each other.

But mostly, let me be your companion, and let yourself be mine. I truly want to be the best man I can for you and I want you to feel you can be your best for me. Let's help each other with the little things like "what's for dinner" or "I need to clean". Let's explore the big things together like "what do you want to do with your life?" or "What do you need to feel sexually satisfied?"

Life is too short to not, right?