I am searching for a FWB/AP to have some clean, consistent, kinky fun with. Someone who is looking for a long-term situation as I am not simply looking for a ONS. I do not have a set age range but would say 50 is probably the upper limit.

A bit about me:
I'm 32, married with no kids. Not looking to change my/your situation. The main thing we are lacking is that spark in the bedroom that so many of us here crave. I love her but unfortunately, I have needs she cannot meet.

I'm 5'11, fit, and active. I have brown skin-tone and complexion, I am well-groomed, have a beard and take care of myself. I workout 3-5 times a week but I am by no means a gym rat. As shallow as it seems, I expect you to be at least somewhat fit or at a similar level of attractiveness. Yes physical attraction is an important factor to me. I love being outdoors when the weather permits and exploring new places, going on hikes, enjoying beautiful scenery. I love to travel and am always on the go, constantly planning my next adventure. I enjoy eating out and would love to take you on dates to new restaurants we have been wanting to try out if feasible.

I am an established healthcare professional with my shit together. I do not post photos on my profile because I work in an extremely public setting, and have seen several of my patients that regularly post on Seattle r4r-type subs. Thus, discretion is a must, and you will get the same from me. Opsec is paramount.

I believe consent and communication are key to maintaining a good relationship. I want to know what you like, dislike, what your limits/boundaries are, what turns you on and gets you going, etc. I will never subject you to something you don't like or put you in a situation you're not comfortable with, and I expect the same.

Things I'm into:
Sensual, passionate sex. I want us to be all over each other's bodies. I want us to enjoy passionate make out sessions and foreplay. I enjoy giving oral and I want your cum dripping down my beard. I enjoy rough sex (within limits), which could include spanking, choking, pulling hair, giving you a hard pounding and whatever else you’re open to. I want to put you in as many positions as possible and see what you enjoy the most. I strive to give my partner multiple quivering orgasms before I cum. I have varying levels of experience with different D/s dynamics. I find that I am very dominant in every aspect of life, not just in the bedroom.

Hard limits: piss play (squirting is okay), scat, blood, cannot leave any lasting marks on my body, not into pegging or any anal play for myself.

Final notes - if you're educated and can hold a conversation on various topics that's a huge plus in my book. I would prefer someone that I can connect with on more than just a sexual level; someone I can actually be friends with. However, I am not completely opposed to having someone who just wants a quick fuck and to be on their way, especially if we end up having great chemistry in the bedroom. I'm extremely busy and very selective with who I give my time to, so please be upfront about what you're looking for and what your expectations are.

I have recent clear STI screening results and expect you to have the same. I am DDF but I am 420 friendly.