Howdy, I’m Q, and that’s the name I go by until I know you a bit better! I’m in my early 30s and live in the southeastern US, not a country boy though, more like a nerd with a thick southern accent.

I have filled my home with books, plants and a pretty cute cat. I also am a gardener and a film photographer with at least a little skill. I like lifting weights in my garage and am on a bit of a fitness journey.

Given this is reddit, it’s obligatory that I mention i’m a huge nerd. I’ve seen hundreds of movies both schlocky and serious cinema. I’ve been really into video games in the past (mostly just helldivers and paradox stuff these days) and I keep up with history and politics pretty intensely with strong opinions about both.

I’m always up for a fun non sexual conversation or even a debate, that’s not really what this is about but I always find it’s more fun to slip into something sexual when both people have been stimulated in a non sexual way.

What I’m looking for is a kinky penpal, somewhat of a rarity on here I’ve found. I would like someone to chat with about sex and kinks and what gets the both of us off. I want to help you cum because that’s what helps me get off, I want to learn about what excites you and see if it’s something I can relate with, we can maybe even discover new kinks together, so I’m happy to hear about kinks other than what I will list below.

I also want to talk to you about the world and your life/interests and see if I can incorporate that into a wider conversation about our kinks. This seems ambitious but it’s quite open ended. We can yap about politics, photography, plant husbandry, books or whatever else you want! I have far too many hobbies and far too much time on my hands, but if you want to jump right into the sexual stuff I’m more than ready for that as well.

My kinks are varied and I won’t list them all here but they include breeding, bondage, degradation, anal, some watersports, some light femdom (I’m switchy), I’ve been into lactation in the past and im warming up to CNC, though I don’t have much experience there. I am excited to try out other kinks as well, I want to hear about what you like and see if I might like it as well. If any or all of this catches your eye I look forward to chatting with you. Hell, even if you weren’t impressed with me here give me a chance to change your mind?