It’s something I’ve always enjoyed. I have a good bit of experience, as one would hope from a man my age. I love chatting and eventually sleeping with women who struggle to orgasm during sex. Sometimes it’s because they can’t get out of their own head and other times it’s because they just haven’t been with a man who can fuck then well enough to get them there. I love giving them the kind of sex they fantasize about.

Me: 6’2”, 220 lbs, fit, conventionally attractive, full head of hair, blue eyes.

You: enthusiastic and energetic, attractive, average to fit body, with hair long enough to pull. Please have a flirty and dirty mind and the ability to maintain a conversation because there will be a lot of that before meeting. And feel free to “challenge” me with your body’s resistance to orgasms.

Why I’m up for the challenge:

1. I prioritize safety and comfort. I want you to know that you’re safe with me and I have no intention of putting my hands on you until you are ready. Communication and consent are very sexy to me. The initial conversation and “sizing each other up” is a turn on for me. Sex is SO MUCH more than physical for me. I love the buildup. I want you comfortable and I want you ravenous.

2. I’m a confident, take-charge type. I won’t be shy or beat around the bush. If you are messaging me, I already know you’re interested. I’ll be direct. This will all translate to the bedroom as well. I will guide and direct you. You don’t need to think once we’re alone. I’ll handle that and you just let go for me and enjoy yourself.

3. I’m VERY vocal. A lot of men are like ninjas in bed. Barely making any sound at all. You will KNOW how much I’m enjoying you from my moaning, grunting, and dirty talk. My firm grip on your waist and my dominant voice telling you how to move your body for me will have you melting. There will also be lots of eye contact and connection.

4. Great orgasm control. I can last as long as I want. This one is pretty self-explanatory.

5. Yes, I’m built to hit the deep spots. Also self-explanatory.

If you meet my requirements and this all sounds appealing, I want you in my inbox NOW.