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[M4f] Online/ CA - Exploring the psychology of a cumdump
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CognisantDom_3789 is a male looking for a female in California
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What does it mean to truly be a cumdump? Is it different than being easy? A slut? Free-use? I think it is. It's far more degrading.

Sluts just enjoy sex, and want to have a good time for their own enjoyment regardless of what the mans needs or interests are. Free-use implies a certain amount of upfront consent, and takes on a tone where she's nearly indifferent to the physical acts being performed on her. It requires a certain odd separation between her body and mind; the latter being ignored while the former is groped or used with a careless indifference.

Being a cumdump requires more, and I find that's exactly why it appeals to some. It requires her willing participation in the other person's desires. A cumdump lets her whole self get used, body and mind, in a way that makes it difficult to divorce what she's doing from how she feels about it. She can't ignore what's happening to her, because her focus is entirely on catering to the whims of his lust. And it requires her to perform, usually un-glamorously, in the perverse fantasies of another.

I want to speak to those of you who want this treatment. I find that individuals who've had or fantasize about this dynamic are deeply psychologically interesting (and more than a hair perverted). Have you been a cumdump? Are your emotions conflicted about the experience? I want to chat with you about it, and understand what about that self-deprecating acts you've performed aroused you so much. If something about this is arousing to you, get in touch. Reddit chat works best.

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