A Quick Summary At The Top

Looking for something real, but Hinge doesn’t have a setting to filter down to the horny kinksters. So here I am putting some serious effort into a personals ad on Reddit!

That being said, I’m also open to exploring. Perhaps you’re looking for a short term relationship to satisfy an interesting kink of yours? Send me a message and I’d be happy to at least hear you out. I happen to be a fun/safe/experienced person for a wide variety of BDSM activities.

Now onto a longer description…

A Little About Me

Some basic facts about me that you might see on a dating app...

• 32 years old
• Demisexual sapiosexual
• A little too tall at 6'5''
• Very physically fit
• Atheist
• Liberal
• Overeducated AF
• Pseudo-nerd with way too many hobbies and tragically little time to get to them all
• Sensitive and communicative
• Safe, sane, and consent-minded

Some of my favorite kinks...

• Bondage
• Power Exchange
• Sadism Masochism
• Humiliation
• Impact
• Forced pleasure
• Breath play

I love just about anything associated with BDSM, but the "B" part excites me the most. Rope bondage is a big interest of mine and I'm fairly skilled with a few shibari ties. My primary interest in writing this post is finding a committed relationship, but at the same time making a new friend to practice my rope skills on would be great (even if it were completely platonic). I'm also very switchy! But I lean dominant and wouldn't mind having that be my exclusive role in a relationship.

A Little About What I'm Looking For

At this time I'm open to a wide variety of new connections.

On the platonic side of things, I would be happiest to connect with people that share my love of shibari and other forms of rope bondage. It would be really nice if someday I could be a prominent rigger/educator in the Phoenix kink community. And I can't make this dream come true unless I have way more people to practice on! So rope bunnies blow up my inbox please and let's schedule some practice sessions.

On the less platonic side of things, at this time I am very much in search of a committed relationship. I'm looking for someone I could eventually call my life partner, primary, nesting partner, etc. I might be open to taking on a play partner provided we could see each other with some regularity, but meeting someone interested in authentic dating would be ideal. Perhaps we could try dating as vanilla people would and slowly ramp up the amount of D/s involved in our relationship? I'm not picky when it comes to age, but please be safe, sane, and healthy. It would be especially nice to find someone with a decent amount of values that overlap with mine and maybe some hobbies in common, but we could have fun figuring out those parts in person. Let me know if any of that catches your interest!

Closing Note

If this ad is still up you can assume I'm still looking. I probably won't be checking this account every day, but if it's been more than a month since I posted this you can definitely still send me a message and expect that I'll eventually see it.

Other Closing Note

You can also look me up on FetLife @ice-giant. Messaging on there works just as well for me as messaging here on Reddit.