I was first attracted to D/s play because I like structure. I like the idea of having power over someone. But that's tricky for me, with my disability. In my daily life, I have to give up a lot of power when other people help me do basic things, like dressing myself or showering. There aren't very many activities that I can do fully by myself. This has left me feeling very dependent on others. I explore kink in order to regain some of that power.
I know deep down I deserve a submissive. It's something I've always known not because I'm some Adonis or some perfect man, but just because I know I do. It's like a quiet steady hum in the back of my mind.
I need a confident, experienced woman. someone who will give themselves to me freely and help me learn. I have plenty of kinks, too many to list here. Some of them are a bit extreme, but none of them are necessary. Though I would prefer someone who is relatively open minded. The only things I don't do are humiliation and degradation. I'm just not programmed that way.
If it's not clear already, I'm looking for a long-term connection with someone who is single, under 45, and preferably in North America.
Thanks for reading and I hope to hear from you soon! I apologize for any typos. I'm using a dictation software and it sucks.
As long as this is up, I am open to replies!
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