Never though I would post looking for this but after not practicing the Dom/sub stuff for years, I find myself really craving it, and vanilla dynamics aren't really doing it for me anymore.

Looking for something long term and with someone who is willing to get to know each other and work on building trust. At the same time, I don't want to talk for weeks on end but I'm also not sleeping with you right away. Let's exchange a few messages, grab a coffee or drink and see how we get along and go from there.

About me: Professional 9-5 worker, so availability is usually weekends but can sometimes do after work. 29 going on 30 in less than half a year. About 5'1 and curvy with a little tummy, definitely not bbw but not skinny. Mixed but just say African American. Submissive borderline bratty with a little bit of dominance mixed in but don't think I'm a switch. Nerdy and dress comfortably, think hoodies and joggers/jeans. Love video games, anime, movies, TV, music, animals, nature (except bugs), etc. Will link my FetLife to give a sense of what I'm into without having to type it all here. I have pics on the also so be calm lol. https://fetlife.com/users/8864876 Don't have a specific type of Dom I'm looking for but I'm not calling you "daddy" and I'm not into be degraded. That's all I can think of for now, feel free to ask more.

You: Race isnt important. I prefer older but do have a limit of 40, willing to consider up to 45 depending on the person. Be local in Philly as I don't drive. Able to host if we get to that point. Someone that's willing to work for a Dom/sub relationship and willing to earn my trust. Willing to take the lead but also know concent is important. Preference for people taller, an athletic - slight dad bod build, and a nice beard. But not necessary. Able to hold a conversation and are fine with talking a little dirty in public.

Serious replies only, one word replies will not receive an answer. I put thought into this post so put thought into your reply. Be willing to verify who you are if we decide to meet. (probably asking for a specific pic)