Good morning, good afternoon, or good evening. Whichever applies when you opened this. You can call me R. I find myself in the odd but not rare situation of having a loving partner in a long-term (12yrs) relationship where kink seems to be a missing component. We've discussed it. We've tried a bit. However the hunger for power exchange is one-sided so here I am hoping to find a partner who is in a similar situation and needs a long-term consistent outlet, or is at least open-minded enough to engage with a man who is ethically non-monogamous.

I'm not looking for romance or to change my situation. I'm not looking to change yours either. I simply need a trustworthy and honest partner to share this perverted hunger with. Someone who craves a discreet outlet to surrender some power or authority in ways that won't interfere with your personal life.

I absolutely love getting inside a woman's head and helping her find clarity and purpose with her secret filthy needs. Hearing the glow and euphoria in her voice after she's finally been permitted to cum after she's earned it and I've had my fun. Nerding out in aftercare is a blast, maybe we can play games or shit, who knows. As much as we enjoy my verbally abusing you, putting you back together and building you back up are the most rewarding parts because I want this to be safe and fun.

You can be younger or older and single or attached. Things I expect from my sub are:

• that she will be prepared to dress as I instruct whenever the situation allows for it (at home, during sessions, grocery shopping, whatever)

• can keep her hands away from things deemed my property unless I give permission or instruction to touch them

• the ability to discuss things that make her uncomfortable. Embarrassment and shame are not excuses for avoiding a topic

• can respect individual space and doesn't need attention 24/7, simply because I can be quite busy with work sometimes

Those are the basics. If you enjoy the feeling of developing a bond with someone trustworthy and honest so you can let go and turn over your pleasure to them, consider this ad an opportunity for you. I want very little to do with your personal life, only as it extends to our dynamic. With me, you'll be mine absolutely. Outside of that, you'll get to exist as the regular you.

These aren't mandatory or necessary but they are bonuses if they apply to you: glasses, slim, has toys (mega bonus for any wevibe/lovense wifi options), has a professional/business-appropriate wardrobe, non-white, enjoys melting into a bimbo during play, are an older woman who gets off on being obedient to younger men, have a collection of stockings/pantyhose

Actual kinks and limits are a better conversation to explore together. If the basics here speak to you, then come speak to me.