Are you intelligent, kind, and ambitious? Do you want to explore domination in the bedroom and world domination outside it? Look no further.

TL;DR: I'm a fun-loving, creative, driven nyc dom looking for a local sub who is equally driven in life, and yearns to give into/be challenged by her trusted partner for a rewarding kinky relationship.

Who Am I?

Physically - I am DDF and white with an athletic build. If you want something more visual - https://imgur.com/a/XT5JOkU

Personality - At times, I can be intense and fiercely competitive. In my career and when pursuing goals and causes that matter, I am stubbornly driven. My current work excites me tremendously and I love what I do. But when I'm not focused in, I tend to be very relaxed and love discovering life's little joys wherever I can. Life becomes more meaningful when you notice the small things in the world that others tend to overlook.

Interests - Mindfulness, running, reading classics, and spending quality time with good friends.

Who Are You?

I'm looking for someone with a mindset to complement mine. Someone passionate, with character and integrity, who also dreams of relinquishing control in the right hands. Someone craving to be with a trusted partner who will challenge her and help her succeed in everything she desires through structure, pleasure, and discipline. This lifestyle is meant to make us be the best version of ourselves for each other. I want someone as committed to that ideal as I am

My ideal partner has the same traits that I bring: she loves to explore/learn new things, she's active/takes care of her physical mental health, she has goals, she is communicative, empathetic, giving, loyal, honest, kinky, emotionally available, and serious about finding a Dom partner.

The kinky stuff

Experience - I lean dominant and mostly find value in the power dynamic of a D/s relationship more than the s/m parts. Flexible and open to discussing the kind of relationship dynamic that would work best for both of us. If you are looking for a dominant with loads of experience, I am not your guy. I have had some experience with partners in the past but would ideally want someone with whom I could explore, learn and grow. In my opinion, couples who grow together into discovering what they want are healthier in the long run.

D/s dynamic - I consider myself your catharsis, comfort, and accountability rolled into one. Nurturing but exhilarating, sweet yet firm, dominant but respectful. The one constant is that I'm big on communication, making our relationship not just a safe-space but something unique to us. That means I would like to spend time together or chat regularly (outside work) since this is a relationship. My partner is a priority for me, just as I want to be for her. I'm also a believer in (negotiated) structure and rules. Obviously nothing happens until we've established clear connection, consent, and mutual respect. Much more to discuss there.

My kinks - bondage, orgasm control/edging, training/tasks/protocols, among others...

While I care deeply about forming a dynamic that is meaningful, I am not looking for one that is exclusive at this time. One day I will be, but not right now. If you are looking for a monogamous life partner, I don’t want to disappoint you.

I am not a fan of playing games. If we do talk, you can expect prompt replies. And if I decide we aren’t a great fit for each other, I will be upfront about it. I expect the same level of courtesy from you.

The only thing left now is to message me! See you on the other side.