My partner says he likes to be dominant, and I’m new to kink really. I have tested out and do know that I enjoy being submissive,
However,
I am really not into degradation at all.
I have sexual trauma in my past and I can find a lot of anxiety when it comes to sex in general.
Mostly the biggest issue is that I feel like my partner doesn’t really listen and then I feel resentment towards that..
Like, for example, we were having a good time and I was giving him a blowjob (which I enjoy) but, he kept seeming to go for my face to cum and I have def told him that I DO NOT like that and find it to feel dehumanizing and degrading. (If you like it, I’m not here to say that’s what it is, it just feels that way to me personally).
After things were over (I forced my body up so it wouldn’t be on my face) he said he just read my signals wrong, but I was still annoyed because why would I just decide that’s what I want when I’ve told you I do not like it?
I don’t think he’s necessarily lying, but.. how do I stop this from being an issue?
*already got someone saying that I just need to open my mind more.. No, my mind is wide open, I know what I like and don’t and I’ll have that respected thank you.
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