I'm a controlling man from Sweden who some would call a walking red flag.
Figured I'd start of with a couple red flags to save your time.

• I'm a sexual sadist.
• Over time I'll fall obsessively in love with you and keep you in a cage when you're not with me (Yes, I'm aware it's not completely reasonable, move on and stop pooping on my fairytale.).
• I would like something more if I knew you struggled to take it, I don't want you to always like it.

On the green flag's side of things?

• I'm mentally stable and not prone to temper tantrums.
• I like cuddles, mess with my cuddles and I'll torture you (Wait, is that a red flag?)
• I'm driven and occasionally funny.
• I will care about you.

I'm searching a special someone who craves to completely surrender on a 24/7 basis, you shouldn't need to make choices and being mine is the only choice you'll have to make. You won't like them all but I will keep your long term well being in mind.

Info dump:

• Some of my kinks in no particular order: Control, TPE, CnC, fear, Love, Master / Slave, cuddles, hard facefucks, kisses, pain, acts of service, cages, quality time, obedience, humiliation, degradation.
• Safety is of crucial importance, I have medical training and consider permanent damage a hard limit along with scat and such.
• But what about feminism? I believe in equality for society at large, however I want none of it in my own relationships.
• If we are getting serious I can leave references before we meet (prior partners who are still alive and well and think nice things about me but who were not compatible life partners for one reason or another).
• Going with the point above, I have some degree of experience as I've been interested in BDSM for half my life, give or take.
• I'm looking for something in real life or something online with the possibility to transition to real life within the next 3-12 months, starting out as friendship and transitioning more and more towards tpe over time.

Regards
Your sweet sadist.