Those who like me often are cerebral and logical women who like to get caught up in crushes which excite and occasionally confuse them. Not looking for a relationship marked by egalitarianism, but rather by something defined by challenge and butterflies. 

You prefer men with an “average” to overweight body type, and don’t care for skinny or overly muscular men. Same. You are also not attracted to men under the age of 35. You like to surround yourself with people who have invested in themselves professionally in worthwhile pursuits, and especially endear yourself to academics, scientists, and educators. 

You are someone who enjoys complex experiences which push you to the edges of what you know about yourself and the world and learning about what healthy looks like to you under those circumstances and enjoy limitations. You get off on transgression.

Whatever your situation, be it student, between jobs, a caretaker, nurse, teacher or some other type of social worker, a remote or a work from home worker, night shifts or irregular schedule, live at home, with friends, or if in NYC and on your own dime then in the outer boros and if you travel by transit, you want the experience to be worthwhile. 

I’m wildly intelligent and have excelled in different areas of life, where my early beginnings would have predicted failure. 

Grew up in Flushing up in and back after living in Asia for around 10 years) Black, White, and Native American mixed race, speak Mandarin, 5’9”, 220lbs. A scientist, educator, and caretaker I've lived an unconventional life.  With a warm smile, big brown eyes, strong hands, big feet, blessed with endowment I've been a protector, mentor, guide, anchor, confidant, partner, teacher in relationships and life. I believe in positive reinforcement, can't stand bullies and am not a sadist. 

Do you want to give yourself to a good if not complicated human being? Someone you feel excited with and surprisingly comfortable enough with what you are glad to take  your clothes off and to show yourself off to. To touch my big dick under my pants and to know you’re the reason for the growth. Excited when told to take it out and to put it in your mouth. To choke on it until the point of tears. Perhaps you have skills to show off, or you need to be pushed, either way we make it work as you marvel at having something so nice and thick to work with. 

To do so while talking about your world and experience asking questions and seeing if you’re doing a good job. To be told you’ve been a good girl for keeping my big dick hard and warm while I do research and finish a thesis to be submitted. Then after asking multiple times, finally giving in and letting you climb on top while we switch to watching porn. Riding me non stop for 40 or 50 minutes… placing a vibrator directly on your clit, and everytime you ask to come I say no. 

… until I see you’re past not being able to take it anymore and I give in and tell you to come for me and how good of a girl you’ve been for holding out for so long. I’ll encourage you to keep it going. To keep the orgasm going for as long as you can. To push it and not let it stop so that you are coming for what seems like an eternity, then I finish inside of you. Afterwards you go back to cleaning me off with your mouth white I get back to studying. 

Someone younger reached out to me as they saw I was into what they called “gooning.” To me it’s edging or delaying orgasm but whatever it is I do like to make my girls wait as I have to (it takes me a long time to/I’m a challenge to make come).

Appealing in itself, yeah? But doesn’t everyone offer the same thing? Well, no. I’m not a sadist. While I do like to make someone feel uncomfortable and I do certainly like to push to the edges of what one knows about themselves, I’m not here to break anyone. I am here to build others up. 

I know what it is to overcome hardship in life and while I get experience can lead to some very interesting desires and no matter what you wish to do or how you like to be treated, I will always remember you are still a human being. Not everyone wants that, but inside of you, you do. Let me mentor and guide you. Be there for you as others have failed to. 

I’m financially secure even though I had to learn how to adult on my own later in life. While I’ve been pretty busy, I can host and will find time for a good girl. I’m STI free. I’m currently embracing being a pothead and have enjoyed mushrooms, molly and hallucinogens especially with sex but haven’t used any hard drugs so am perfect if you like to get high while “gooning”. Ideally, I would like something that lasts at least a little while even if it starts with us clicking, meeting up and finding it impossible to ignore our sexual energy.  

Doesn't matter what ethnic group, family structure you grew up in or what walk of life you find yourself traveling as I’ve dated all types and realize there is something special about you and your experience which has brought this serendipitous possibility of a meaningful, positive, and sexy experience with a man capable and worth your time. 

“Wherever you go, there you are.”

Now send some pictures and overshare about yourself. 

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