First off, happy to share a pic of two once we start chatting. For now I'm -
White
200lbs
Tattoos
Short brown hair
Kinda cute? Maybe? I mean I think so. Honestly who can give an honest self assessment of themselves? Not this guy! All I do know is I haven't had any complaints, I go to therapy, and I'm capable of reaching a deep and meaningful connection with my partner. I want someone to enjoy life with, and that's why I'm here. Well that and dating apps are garbage.

So, why here? Well I as much as I enjoy being social I'm sober so bars aren't really a great option for meeting others. I do have a great group of friends but they tend to be more in the "Stay in and play video games" category. So, it's pretty difficult to actually meet someone I would like to date. I've tried dating apps but wow, that is just a complete dumpster fire. Talk about a bad psychology experiment. So, I figured I'd try this out and take advantage of a platform that offers a little more space to describe myself.

I play hockey, just got my first job in my new field (yay it's finally paying off), and generally like a healthy dose of shenanigans, movies, shows, going out, video games, and staying active in my life. If you do too we're gonna get along great!

Personality wise I use a lot of humor and always have. My therapist would say it's a defense and I would probably agree but dammit someone's gotta keep the world laughing. I'd say I'm kind (I DESPISE bullying and animal abuse) and like to see other people happy. I'm the kind of guy that's gonna start someone's car on a cold morning. I'd say I'm a damn good catch. You may be asking yourself "how is this guy still single?!?!" Well, calm down I'll tell you. It took me a long time to work through some trauma and I wasn't ready to really connect and let someone into my life in the way that I am now.

On that note, I'd like to get to know you! And I'm happy to share about myself as well.

I'd love a townhouse or a condo some day. Maybe a house is in the cards but god that's a ton of work. I would really like to compliment my life with someone I love and hope my partner would like to do that same:)

Lastly, just because it's important for connection, I mildly enjoy kink. Mostly in the form of cuckolding. Normally I wouldn't just throw something sexual out but I think a healthy sexual connection is also a very important part of a relationship along with values, beliefs, attraction, etc. Normally I wouldn't just throw that out there but god knows you don't want to make a connection with someone for them to eventually be like "nah". This is mostly just thrown in because actually meeting someone long distance eventually definitely has a higher threshold of like "Oh hey we really do sync up".

As for my values. I like human rights? Generally liberal but I think I've turned into a moderate in the last couple years. But I'm not super into politics anyway so, not the end of the world for me. I love humor and and I'm at my happiest when I'm making my friends laugh!

Halloween rocks and I'm into the spooky vibes. Lately I've been into What we do in the Shadows (Lazlo is my hero), some older shows like Twilight Zone, and stuff like that.