Hey,

So I'm a 31 year old married straight guy from the UK.

When I was a younger my sex drive was really high. I would masturbate several times a day, and pretty much any woman would turn me on. I lost my virginity early on, but didn't get a lot of experience until my early 20's.

At that point I started taking medication for a condition, and looking back, it reduced my sex drive a lot. I didn't realise at the time, and I still masturbated daily and enjoyed sex. But in hindsight, it put a dampener on my sexual appetite.

Last year I was fortunate enough to be able to stop the medication, and since then my sex drive and general horniness has been through the roof. I constantly feel horny, and find myself masturbating frequently when I'm not having sex with my wife.

After some thinking, and chatting to other redditors, I realised I never really had male friends to talk to about sex, puberty, or the male body in general. I had friends, and still do today, but talking to them about sex seems weird and awkward.

I would have loved to have a guy friend that was pretty open about discussing sex, penis size and masturbation. I've heard plenty of stories on here about guys having friends who often got naked in front of each other, compared penises, and even jacked off infront of each other.

I really wish I had that growing up, not in a gay way, but just having a buddy to talk and compare to. I think it would have been fun, but reassuring at the same time. Just giving each other advice and tips about masturbation, sex and male problems.

If you think that's something you wish you had, or even something you want at the moment, then send me a DM!

A few notes:

I am married and not gay, so this isn't a sexting thing. I don't mind seeing cocks and talking about masturbation, but that's as far as it would go.

Please dont ask me about the medication, it's not relevant to know more.