Hello internet!

Forgive me if this is a longer than average post, I'm addicted to adding context. This post is also going to be recycled in a few similarly themed subreddits, but it's all the same information to put out.

If you are just gauging interest based on physical stats I'll put this first:

I am overweight and out of shape! My body type is "big belly, mostly normal everything else", i'm 6'1 and hairy, and I've been working on fitness for years but the reality is that i've dealt with chronic pain since I was a child, and am only really getting treatment and support for it in the last year or two. So if you accept the sympathy card, hello it's me: sexless, fat, disabled man. I am about 270lbs. But I'm also cool and nice and kind and funny :)

I am a 32 year old white cis man, born and raised in and around British Columbia. I currently live in the Okanagan Valley and would be willing to travel a bit if the connection is there. I am closest to Penticton, but in range of places like Peachland, West Kelowna, Kelowna, Keremeos (shamelessly adding these for enhanced search-ability).

I am willing to exchange pics at some point once there's at least a small amount of trust, and I'm in no rush to meet up with the first person that messages me so no pressure if you do reach out. I also won't expect nudes or anything like that. They're mostly welcome, but not the norm!

A bit more about me and what I'm into/hoping for:

I've been disinterested in sex for a few years for personal reasons, but I'm ready to light that fire again (maybe). So a one time thing would be a really simple and wonderful way to add a spark, but I'm open to staying connected if there is chemistry, while making no promises about my ability/willingness to stay interested.

I'm open to a wide variety of experiences. As long as there is a baseline physical attraction/compatibility, I'm open to talking and seeing if a meet up is in our cards. I have some kinks and have explored that space a little bit, but I'm no expert. My sexual energy is usually VERY reciprocal, so if there's something you are into, there's a good chance I'm down to at least try it.

That being said, I have no attraction to men and am not interested, please do not contact me. This is not a transphobic statement, if you are a trans woman, you are a woman and I'm open to hearing from you. If you're NB, I may or may not be attracted to you depending on how masc/fem you present, but I welcome you to reach out too.

Regardless of if you reach out or not, I hope you have a great day.