It always seems like there's a good reason to avoid doing the things you really want to do. But let's be real: if you're looking through this subreddit and not making a real plan to find a lover, you're just wasting your time. Do you really think you'll go the rest of your life without fucking anyone besides your husband? I doubt it. So quit procrastinating and go cheat on your husband with a big cock.

Maybe it seems like it's just such a huge project that you'll never be able to actually get it done. And you're right not to rush into it: this is not something that happens all at once. There are little steps that add up to success. So if you're enjoying this post, just send me a DM; that will get us chatting and we can see if we hit it off. Let's not talk about sex right away: if the conversation is rolling, I'm sure it will come up naturally.

If we're having a really good time chatting online, then we can meet up at lunchtime or after work one day, to see how we get along in person. I don't want to spend time with someone unless I really enjoy her company when we're not having sex: we need quality cuddle time afterwards too. If we do really enjoy each other's company, I'll ask you if I can put my arm around you: that's when we discover if there's real physical chemistry, and we will definitely know as soon as we touch.

If we both agree that the spark is there, we can meet again on a different day. I'll get a hotel room for us to make it easy. Making an excuse to be out of the house won't be hard. If you want to hear what happens next, you can read the post on my profile called "Fucking a married woman from Reddit."

Yes I've done this before ... but not too many times, simply because it's rare to find a partner that makes it worthwhile. But when you do find it, the pleasure can be incredible, and incredibly worth the effort. So, quit procrastinating and go make your dreams a reality.